[COLOR darkblue]We are an active and attractive, fit, professional, non-smoking, upscale, married couple of 17 years. We do not consider ourselves to be in the life style, nor are we late night partiers. We are happy, healthy and looking to stay that way while spicing things up a bit in and out of the bedroom, by adding a select couple or single to the mix .She is straight, a long legged blond that’s 5-8 1/2 tall and 125 lbs with a pretty face, nice body and bubbly personality. He is open-minded, 5-11" tall, 185 lbs with dark hair and eyes with a nice smile and a bit of a naughty streak. We are not looking for a one night stand but rather friends with benefits relationship. Our relationship is not one where either of us is out being promiscuous without the other. We play only as a pair. We like fine dining, porn, travel, the ocean, more porn, (just kidding), conversation, boating, motorcycling, new experiences and broader horizons. [B]Sugar & Spice[/B]: We have the sugar if you have the spice. Spice cums in many flavors from mild to wild. From sexy and flirtatious behavior to photo and video sharing, naughty behavior, dress, kiss & rub, undress, watching and the much more potent and powerful flavors. Let us know what your favorite spice is; we're open minded and looking for new recipes. [B]To all:[/B] We are looking for a "FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS" relationship, only not a onetime romp with those we know near nothing about. We are discrete and respectful of limits and expect the same. We are open-minded but selective and not looking for drama, heavy hitters, critters or any incurable or life threatening STD's. With regards to STD’S: say what you know and know what you say. We have had conversation with some who make the "disease free" claim without having ever been tested. This is not what friends are for. If you are going from partner to partner, you are not for us... sorry! [B]NEW RULE:[/B] We will not meet or consider meeting anyone without exchanging multiple communications, phone conversations, and an exchange of facial photos or without getting to know you. Trust is a must and we prefer to know someone prior to meeting them. So don't start something unless you are willing to invest the time to see it through. My new five date rule is designed to separate the men from the boys: those who will go the distance and get to know who their getting naked with from those who are looking to get laid. [B]Our ideal person:[/B] Is honest, trustworthy refined with alike views and interests, upbeat, compatible, physically and intellectually appealing, willing to go the distance to get to know who they are considering sharing more than just friendship with, and that's looking for more than just instant intimacy or a one night stand. We are not looking for the many or the few we are looking for the one. We seek one special single or couple that's also looking to explore and secure the illusive but exclusive friends with benefits relationship. Our ideal person is also clean, non-pushy, definitely non-crude or rude, is well groomed with alike interests, concerns and that knows what they do and don’t have. [B]Our ideal couple is:[/B] If you are looking for something more than superficial sex with compatibility and chemistry seems to be the challenge and a half. One whose company we can enjoy both in and out of the bedroom. Prefer classy and refined, intelligence is a plus, as is your being reasonably matched as a couple looks wise. We are not, nor are we looking for, Ken and Barbie. On the flip side we are not looking for Barbie and Igor either. NON-SMOKING IS NON-NEGOTIABLE, age 38 to 50, (or exceptional). The he in your we should be average or ABOVE AVERAGE ENDOWMENT as we are not looking to down size, minimum height of 5'10". Also prefer in shape or height and weight proportioned, clean, well groomed, non-pushy, non-crude, non rude, and like us, selective and open to occasional naughtiness with a couple that's also not bed hopping. We are not opposed to meeting couples where the wife is bi, but the misses isn’t bi or in the market to be. [B]Spice Girls: [/B]SHE IS NOT BI! She did come close once with a really good friend until the husband flipped out. What on earth was he thinking??? As for me, I have not been with another woman in seventeen years. We have discussed and may consider a FMF scenario. [B]Gentlemen:[/B] I’m going to start with a really hard one as in someone that has actually taken the time to read our profile before contacting us. We are open-minded but selective. Unlike many couples, we are open to a LTR friends with benefits scenario with a select single gent. We are also open to a married gent who occasionally needs a little more, or something different than what he is getting at home. We are drama free, discrete, respectful of limits and require the same. If your applying for the mf, mfm or mmf position you should reasonably good looking, height and weight proportioned, have a minimum height of 5'10", and have average to ABOVE AVERAGE ENDOWMENT. She likes watching a guy masturbate, so those who want to show it and grow it are especially welcome. She is not looking for marathon sex, so if you can’t get off or stay hard, you are not for us. [B] The Guy reply check list:[/B] A NON-SMOKING ONLY!!! B UNDER 45 YEARS OLD!!! C MINIMUM HEIGHT REQUIREMENT OF 5' 10' tall D NO PHOTO NO REPLY!!! E Bi curious is a plus but not a must. F Swinging with Tarzan is a plus having a jungle between your legs is a bust. G We will not reply to one line communications looking for instant sex. H Having a hotel or motel room won't get you special treatment. I If you have sent us three or more communications and we have not replied, we aren’t going to. J We don't play when excessive alcohol is consumed. K A condom is required without proof of a lack of certain STD'S. We are not looking for a one night stand.[/COLOR]

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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