I'm divorced, with a 12 year old whom I share 50/50 with her mother, so I'm generally only available half of the time. I'm looking for a friend/lover to enjoy my free time with. I've been on Match and some other dating sites, but run across way to may game players and/or women who just don't know what they want in a relationship. I enjoy sex and think it should be part of a "dating" profile, so here I am. I enjoy all types of sex but especially like bondage. I'm not into it as a lifestyle but certainly enjoy it in the bedroom. I'm also looking for a woman that would like to explore her wild side. I am patient and enjoy teaching and leaning new things, especially in the bedroom. Vanilla just gets boring after a while. Would love to find a women for a long term relationship (maybe more?) but I am OK with occasional meetings as well. I'm a fairly large guy, 6' 3" and 330 lbs, but carry my weight pretty well. Used to play college football. However, if big guys are a turn off for you, then I'm probably not the guy for you. I still work out as often as I can and enjoy riding my bike, hiking and camping, and other physical activities. Just recently started playing golf, and would love to find someone for a weekend game. I used to play men's hockey, but a hip injury caused me to give it up. Hoping to get back into it soon. I'm also a pretty good cook and actually enjoy it. I'm college educated and have a pretty good job that I enjoy, so discretion is always important to me. I don't smoke but like an occasional beer or three, especially if out to dinner or on vacation.

My Ideal Person I am looking for a woman that is interested in exploring her wild side. Beginner to experienced doesn't really matter to me, just someone that enjoys experimenting and discovering new ways to please each other.

Looking for a woman who's not currently in a relationship and/or doesn't have a lot of emotional baggage from previous ones. I'm really just looking for someone to enjoy life with, from going out for a nice dinner, traveling, catching or show, or just chillin at home watching a movie or playing in the bedroom.

I would prefer someone that shares my same likes and interests. Chemistry, as well as physical attraction are important to me. If you don't have a pic and are not willing to send one in an email, then we are probably not a good match.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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