We're a down to earth easy-going couple that have been together a long time. We're both happy and secure in our relationship and expect the same of potential playmates. We're looking for more than just sex. Ideally, we want playmates that we could see ourselves hanging out with on a regular basis. For us, that connection just makes the sex better. The more we know each other, the more pleasurable the experience (and the next) will be. We're both active, health conscious, clean and in good shape. It is important that our playmates also have these qualities. NO SINGLE MALES! We mean it! In the bedroom, we like it kinky. We're up for pretty much anything, with the following exceptions... No strict swapping. We both have to be involved. Also, although we love the odd spank, slap or bite, we're not into hard core S&M. And finally, we're not into any fetishes that involve elimination. In terms of experience, we've tried almost every possible combination (e.g., mmf, mmmf, ffm, ffmm). We love to mix it up and explore/experiment. But, that being said, we are very selective in choosing playmates. We are truly about quality over quantity. Also, we remain friends with most of our previous playmates. We're willing try some light bondage or blindfolds.

My Ideal Person We are looking for individuals that are open-minded and outgoing, but capable of discretion. We're looking for people to have fun with in and outside the bedroom. In other words, we like to be proud of who we wake up next to in the morning.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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