Single-- but that still feels strange being a widower after a long marriage; mostly attracted to women, but enjoy oral play with women and men. I'm a widower, but was happily married to a wonderful Hotwife who understood (and encouraged) that I like oral sex with a man. Of all the straight and LGBTQ+ identifiers Q for Queer seems to fit as my sexual orientation, gender identity and sane kinks are "different" than most people and often fluid. Thought maybe Pansexual but not actually since I definitely recognize gender, so more Omnisexual in that I recognize gender and while like to orally play with a man, I'm much more attracted to women. Retired, live a relatively simple, vanilla and discreet rural lifestyle. I enjoy travel, road-trips and camping. .

My Ideal Person An open-minded and Hotwife type women and/or sane Alpha man who likes oral service to completion (recip not needed). Into the BD part of BDSM, but not the SM part... no pain play, mostly submissive but sometime Switch. I do like to be subjected to verbal humiliation and sometimes degrading type play with sane, clean man and/or women.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, A little of each

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