We have been together for 25 years, we actually met on AFF in the spring of 98 and even got three out of the deal if you can believe that. LOL We are very much in love and looking to spice things up. I'm not as good as I once was and my wife has had over 20 surgeries from ovarian cancer, breast cancer and so on. She lost both breasts in and had reconstructive surgery, but there's only so much they can do when they take everything. She's Bi and I'm, well honestly I don't know. We could be up for anything,with the right people. We're just trying to dip our toes in the water and see how it feels.