It has taken us a long time to reach this point. We have been in a committed, loving relationship for over 20 years. Like all couples we have had good times and bad times. One of our most memorable memories was sneaking away to Hedonism 3 a few years ago to get married. Unbeknownst to us, we visited the resort during swinger’s month. We didn’t swing at that time but it was a crazy, fun filled week. Heck, we even went back for our first anniversary. When I close my eyes, I can still see the pussy fountain and hear all the moaning :) . I think we both knew from that trip that swinging would be part of our lives again. We then started to explore a different avenue which has led us to an overflowing toy bag by our back door. It is filled with a whips, nipple clamps, Neon Wand, a bondage hood and a beautiful pair of heels. The BDSM lifestyle has provided us a many opportunities to express ourselves and meet new and like minded people. Fast forward ten years…we lead a normal yet hectic family life (which has and will come first over our extra-curricular activities. This causes us to be non-committal sometimes). But swinging still seems to be on our minds. So we decided to start making inroads to the swinging community. We are currently looking at soft swinging and slowly leading up to the full swap. We have no time line, but will move as we feel things are right. EDIT*** While we planned to take things slow, we went full our first time. I guess when you are ready, you are ready.{=} He is 43 and she is a young 39. We both are social drinkers, non-smokers and do not take any drugs. While we are accepting of 4:20, it is not our thing. One of the things we feel that allowed us to explore different sexual avenues is excellent communication; this is key in allowing us to fulfill our deepest fantasies. We are discrete about our activities and expect the same from others. We try to avoid drama as much as possible, while we do not mind people coming and venting, we don’t expect our conversations to leave the room after we leave. We truly are looking forward to meeting everyone. Please feel free to drop a line or ask and questions. But to see if you are really reading this, when you do contact us, you need to have the word blue in cap letters as the first line, other wise we will just delete the email. Simple! We might even let the next line pass... At this current time, we are [B][COLOR darkred]NOT[/COLOR] [/B]interested in single males. Sorry Guys. We can be friends, but there will not be any benefits, if you know what we mean. 2016 UPDATE: While we like to have a few drinks and do not mind if other do as well (hell they can even do some 420), but PLEASE don't get so shit faced or stoned that you cannot remember that you were with us the next day. This has happen too many times and we are just not interested in you if you need to go to this extreme to play with us. This may offend some of our friends, and past play partners. But nothing takes the air out of the balloon from a great night/weekend (and memories of such) than being told that the per(s) you were playing with can't remember anything from that night. If you have a problem with the above statement and would like to discuss it more, please contact me.

My Ideal Person We are looking for a couple that is willing to take their time with us. At the same time have no commitments after we are done.

Just in case you missed it....

At this current time, we are NOT interested in single males. Sorry Guys

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Cuckolding.. but we are a long ways from that happening.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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