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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Cams - 5/25/2016

I've been away from the magazine for awhile now and honestly most of the site too. I as a standard member know most denied access, but today I went to view a members cam and it to had a point value o

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Interracial - 2/20/2016

My question is of interracial dating and double standards. I am referring to black men dating white women as opposed to white men dating black women? I know we all have our own preferences and of cour

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
A different view of hosting? - 1/28/2016

Hosting is always of importance when deciding to meet anyone right? Of course it is. Some will say they never host others say they do.

My question is somewhat related to hosting I think or ma

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Lying - 1/26/2016

What would you think or do if you have been in contact with someone and are ready to meet them, yet they have lied consistently in regard to their age? Everything else is legit and verifible. Were tal

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Elvis - 1/8/2016

Today is E's birthday. January 8 1935. What is your favorite Elvis recording. For me any of his gospel songs.

In celebration I am going shopping for a velvet portait of Elvis then coming back

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
AL question # 5000 - 1/7/2016

Just for fun I went back and looked at the number of questions that have been asked here on the AL. That number was 4792 and dated back to Oct 1997. That doesn't seem like a lot for almost twenty year

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Did I miss anything? - 12/29/2015

Guys it been a deadly weekend here in DFW how has the advice lines been? At this point I welcome all to write me and tell me how their Christmas was and if they have plans for NYE

Christmas w

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
More expressions of Christmas - 12/25/2015

While there have been plenty to wish all a Merry Christmas I wish to extend mine too. Please be safe if you are traveling and always designate a driver if you are going to be drinking, I want you to b

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Network Invites. - 12/19/2015

It use to be that I could find my network invites that I sent and check their status or delete them. Can I still? Where? Thanks.

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Wedding Bands - 12/9/2015

I never been married so I've never worn a wedding ring. That said I'm curious to some myths and curious in general about the power of wearing them.

Have anyone of you ever worn one when not m

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Ambassador or Ice Breaker - 12/2/2015

Maybe this question has been asked but, is there a difference between the two? The two being the Ambassador program and the Ice Breaker.

Prior to Thanksgiving I received an initial email tha

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
WAD PSA - 12/1/2015

Dec. 1st, is World Aids Day. There still is no cure or vaccine.

Of course many advancements have been made in regard to meds and treatments where a person diagnosed with HIV can live a normal

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Left Over Turkey - 11/27/2015

Anyone got an great ideas for the left overs from Thursday? Doesn't have to be the turkey what ever left overs you have. Any receipes?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Friend Network Invite - 11/23/2015

How do you deal with unwanted Friend Requests Invites? I've gotten a number of them from people who have never spoken a word with me or exchanged an email. I guess I really know what to do and am jus

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Just a fun question - 11/18/2015

this is just a funquestion for everyone, please no haters.

If you could be any cartoon or animated figure who would you be? Is there a particular reason why?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
profile physical information - 11/12/2015

I'm wondering why they stopped displaying a simple thing like a person's height on their profile?

It use to be visible to see but nowdays it isn't. Although I went back and looked at my info

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
PreJudgemental - 11/12/2015

are you the type of person to judge a person on their looks alone?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Thanksgiving Preparations - 11/10/2015

I have a family that gathers to celebrate Thanksgiving Day together. It involves Family and friends and some will arrive during the week for a prolonged visit.

A Sister always hosts this Than

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Thanksgiving Preparations - 11/10/2015

I have a family that gathers to celebrate Thanksgiving Day together. It involves Family and friends and some will arrive during the week for a prolonged visit.

A Sister always hosts this Than

0 response(s), 0 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
A Question on Hosting - 11/9/2015

When I view a profile and the additional questions are answered sometimes you l see the "What kind of night life do you enjoy?" question answered with "Intimate gatherings in my home."

To you

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Activity Notification part deux - 10/27/2015

I noticed that my Activity Notication has changed again. It is gone from the lower right hand corner back the banner across the top. Am I lucky or what? Yee Haw ya'll

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
X Marks the Spot - 10/23/2015

The last four days I have a mysterious black X in place of some photos I am viewing. I have my Content Filter set to Everything. It covers both Nudity and Non - Nudity photos. It also isn't limited to

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Activity Notification - 10/20/2015

Geeze, does this site never let anything just be? So they move the Activity Notification back down to the right hand corner. That thing pops up and if you got multiple views then it covers up your pag

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Instant Messenger - 10/19/2015

Did they take the Instant Messenger away over the weekend? I've tried all the links to get it to launch from any of the three I know of. I've looked at many pages of who is online and don't see the IM

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Beating A Dead - 10/13/2015

My first thought is to say being Gold does not translate to having success on this site and hooking up. My thoughts on the issue of limited standard access are these: Many an argument has been made fo

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Mail - 10/8/2015

Is anyone else having problems with their sent mail? Mine is not appearing in my message center. I can go back to the profile I sent mail to and it will show there under recent interaction.

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Who's on first? - 10/2/2015

No joke, about a month ago I posted about the two sports Football and Baseball seasons running together. Back in early Spring I posted about baseball team favorites. This weekend should wind down the

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
messages - 9/28/2015

I just got a series of three email from a member expressing usual blah blah blah and I started to answer immediately but navigated away from the mail center. When I went back to answer a fourth messag

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Tan Lines - 9/28/2015

I have what is commonly known as a famers tan and some of the whitest legs ever seen. Though it doesn't bother me at times I do get some strange looks.

My question is do you pay much attentio

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Ice Breaker - 9/22/2015

I understand the principal of the ice breaker but why as a gold member have I been getting a ton of these this week?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
PSA - 9/20/2015

This is a simple Public Service Announcement. After a terrible incident that happened to a relative this week I wish to remind everyone about motorcycle safety. As a rider an approved helment should a

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
The Donald - 9/15/2015

I attended the Trump Rally in Dallas last night, wished I hadn't but hey the tickets were free. When I left I had one question that being REALLY?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
what makes you jealous? - 9/9/2015

I have some friends that are swingers that are ok with meeting other people alone or together. I've known them quite a while now and have never seen either exhibit any type of jealousy until this

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Lets Talk Sports - 9/3/2015

Baseball vs Football

Well it the first week of September which means the return of NFL Football is around the corner, but it also means that the long Baseball season has another month of reg

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
SRV - 8/27/2015

I'm sorry I posted this late but I wanted to mention it anyway. Today 8/27/15 marks the 25th anniversary of the passing of Stevie Ray Vaughan. A True bluesman lost tragically at 35. I hope all has at

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
IS there still a glossary here? - 8/26/2015

There use to be a glossary here I thought in the magazine section, have I over looked it or is it gone?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
When is too late? - 8/25/2015

I have been talking to a couple off and on and we agreed to meet. Our schedules allowed that we could actually meet over the weekend. The preceding Thursday I sent my contact information by email, a

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Say a Prayer - 8/22/2015

Last night I took a friend to an adults only event. It was more than a social with nudity and sexual activity pretty much from the git go. Part of the amenities was a small buffet consisting mostly o

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
No Good deed goes Unpunished - 8/19/2015

I'm sure we all have heard the expression, " No Good deed goes Unpunished". My question to you is what does it mean to you?

I ask because after having gone out of my way the last couple of da

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
How hot do you like it? - 8/4/2015

This week in Dallas the temperture forecast is expected to hover between 104 degrees F and and 107, that being actual temperture and not including the heat index. The humidity should be low making thi

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
eXXXrotica Expo - 8/1/2015

Next week here in Dallas there is going to be an eXXXrotica Expo, one of three being held this year. The one here in Dallas and two elsewhere.

This is an adult industry event that has been he

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Flirt button - 7/27/2015

Is it just me or are there gremlins on the site tonight? I'm perving profiles and notice that the flirt funtion is gone, but it seems only on profile pages the most common place you'd want it to be.

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Hijacking Threads - 7/22/2015

There seems to be one or two unattended that continue to roam the halls being disruptive. Play with your dicks twats or asses on this thread. My suggestion would be your asses, since your full of shi

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Security Breach - 7/21/2015

With the reporting that the Ashley Madison adult site had been hacked and were basically being blackmailed to take down the site(s) or face the release of all data publicily, and in light of the recen

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Why are you here? - 7/15/2015

I recently contacted a woman that in her profile she stated she was looking for a LTR as opposed to just a FWB situation but with the right man some exceptions could be considered. She returned my ema

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Handguns & Meetings - 7/13/2015

I once contacted a couple that agreed to meet that same evening. We met at a local eatery and got acquainted over some dinner and a few drinks.

Everyone seemed comfortable when I suggested t

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Public Sex - 7/10/2015

In the last few weeks I have been approached by others wishing to engage in forms of public sex. The range has been from blow jobs in a moving car to full encounters outdoors. Is this a growing trend

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Friends - 7/2/2015

It use to be that when you sent out friend requests that in your Friend Network it would show pending requests that you had sent out. Is that function still available I am not sure where to find it if

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Ice Cream - 7/2/2015

I'd like to crank up some home made ice cream this weekend for the 4th, it is something I haven;t done since I was a . Anyway anyone got a good receipe that they would pass on?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Same Sex Marriages - 6/30/2015

Now that the Supreme Court has made law legalizing same sex marriage what is you opinion? Have your views changed?

Here in Texas the powers that be are conservative Republicans and they are

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Bars & Stars - 6/25/2015

Do you have an opinion on the current controversy involving the Confederate battlefield flag? Here below are some bling I made early on. I went back and looked at who took them and was surprised that

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Nasty or Kinky? - 6/18/2015

Which word, nasty or kinky best describes your last sexual encounter? How did you make the distinction or what is your definition?

Mine was nasty sex, the hot sweaty type that leaves the bed

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Spinning my wheels - 6/10/2015

maybe since it is hump day or whatever, I feel as though I am just spinning my wheels today.anyone have a word of encouragement, cool story laughable joke or maybe just an old adage to share. if it i

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Report Abuse / - 6/8/2015

Does it do any good to report a profile if there was solicitation for money but not on the site? I contacted a new member who agreed to meet for a late social lunch. During the course of this meet it

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
pink sildenafil pill aka female viagra - 6/2/2015

What are you thoughts on the FDA approval of sildenafil? To the female respondents, what would be a circumstance that you might take it? Would you consider taking it recreational as an enhancement?
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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Sex & Intimacy - 5/28/2015

What are your thoughts on kissing? Is it too intimate for just a causal hook up. Is it a form of cheating to the couples that bring others in to play? Is it something you require as foreplay or is it

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Honesty - 5/28/2015

I recently have been in touch with someone that has stressed in their profile that honesty is a priority. That being said I have no problem being honest in to who I am and my profile.

Here is

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Humpday - 5/20/2015

Wednesdays are normally slow around here, so does anyone have anything interesting that they are following?

Here in Texas where I am, I'm following Sunday's incident where 9 motorcycle gang m

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
How Long? - 5/18/2015

This is pretty much for members that have been on the site a while but anyone can answer. What is the longest that you have taken a break away from the site and why? What are the reasons for returning

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Is it me or site? - 5/14/2015

For the last four days, when I view anyone's profile the height is displayed in cms and not feet/inches. Can't say I every learned metric equivalent. Is this happening to all?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Meet & Greet - 5/12/2015

What are some venues that may be appropriate for a M & G?

My suggestion was a baseball game. It is a public place and most stadiums serve most type foods and drinks. Group rate tickets and f

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Got Your Goat - 5/6/2015

I am looking for some good recipes on preparation and cooking of goat meat. A friend gave me like a four pound roast and I'd like to cook it it up this weekend.

I've eaten it before but never

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
A Computer Question - 4/30/2015

I am thinking of purchasing a new laptop, being that I am not tech savvy I came here looking for advice. Thanks.

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Drug Free - 4/22/2015

What is your take on profiles from states or areas that have legalized marijuana use or those that have medical marijuana? Is it a deal breaker if they partake?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Site Glitches - 4/16/2015

I see gremlins. The site must have done an update, I am experiencing several issues this morning.

There seems to be a problem with mail, only the last reply is showing and not the history. Pl

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
When is enough, enough? - 4/15/2015

My question is a simple one, what to do with a friend that doesn't know that their drinking is too much?

It seems to be the center of activity for them, it is a constant during the day, all d

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Giving Advice - 4/12/2015

Since this is the Advice Lines section of the site, yet rarely are we able to share anything really meaningful considering the quality of all questions, would you like to leave a quote of your own, th

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Profile Question - 4/9/2015

Is it just laziness on the profiler's part or did the site cut out a lot of the extra questions and basic info?

For the most part, ok all, of the new and recent new profiles seem to be missin

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
MLB - 4/6/2015

Well it was opening, hope evryone that enjoys the game took time to root for their home team.

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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An Easter Question - 4/4/2015

Since this is Easter weekend I'm just being silly and going way out there to ask, which came first the bunny or the egg?











This is an

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Hosting - 4/1/2015

What is most of ya'lls policy when it comes to who hosts?

Are you willing to meet at a house or prefer a hotel/motel. My rule on this, I'm already making a mortgage payment so I certainly do

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
What's in a Name? - 3/31/2015

I think we all know that a single bisexual female is known as a unicorn, but I was curious if their male counterpoint has a similar moniker?





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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Bad Wednesday Joke Cock Size - 3/18/2015

I was told this was similar post to others regarding COCK SIZE. Anyway Blame Me, Shame Me I'm just putting it up as a Wednesday Joke and ask you to put one up.

I met with a woman from on here

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Site Navigation - 3/17/2015

With the exception of the AL, what feature of AdultFriendFinder do you think you use the most of?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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More Green than Not - 3/14/2015

Re: St. Patty's day. Earlier I asked how to go about make my beer green, best answer I received was to probably just serve it in green cups. Great answer I thought so I'll be out to party supply looki

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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St Patrick's Day/Green Beer - 3/13/2015

What's safe to put in a keg to turn beer green?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Reality of Swinging - 3/10/2015

Do anyone have any plans to watch at least the first episode of the new reality show to premier on the A & E network March 22, Neighbors with Benefits?

Centered around a core couple the show

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Site Support - 3/6/2015

Sometimes I feel really inadequate such as now having to ask how to find site support blog. duh

Anyway having an issue maybe someone else is having too and I am looking for help. My issue is

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Virtual Gifts/Points - 2/25/2015

I've been on this site for almost 9 years and just became aware of the VIRTUAL GIFTS located as an attachment on the email toolbox.

All you folks that always complaining about having all thos

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Instant Messenger - 2/23/2015

ok guys put down the heads of cabbage you are ready to throw at me. what issues are you having with the AdultFriendFinder messenger?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Spaced Out Deuce - 2/17/2015

So have any of you noticed my other question titled Spaced Out? That question was for fun and simply asked if anyone ever had an encounter with an extra terrestrial.

Spaced Out Deuce is more

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Spaced Out - 2/16/2015

Anyone ever had sex with an extraterrestrial before? if so care to describe your experience?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Do you have alternative ideas/plans for Valentines? - 2/12/2015

With the supposedly most romantic day of the year just nights away do you have plans? Will you be alone or wish to be?

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Any idea? - 2/4/2015

Any idea what may be happening with my profile? I can log in not from a bookmark but from the mainpage of AdultFriendFinder, and when I do a search of who's online I do not show up. Since I have my cupid preferen

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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I Kissed a Girl and Liked it - 2/1/2015

Super Bowl XLIX. Katie Perry and Lenny Kravitz performance two thumbs up. Overall an entertaining half-time production.

Congratulations Tom Brady MVP, .4 time Super Bowl champ and surpassed J

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Who's Online - 1/28/2015

You know when you go to your main homepage that it shows who's online, well I have noticed that there is always several in my area that always seem to be shown.

Does anyone know how this is p

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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A Show of Hands - 1/27/2015

I was doing some reading on differences between men and women and came across this information.

Men's hands differ from women's and that there is a noticeable difference. The difference being

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Bidets - 1/24/2015

How common are bidets? Being here from the States and particularly Texas they are not seen much if at all.

A friend of mine approach me and asked if I could install one. Not really having muc

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Deleting Email - 1/21/2015

Just wondering about deleting email before it is read. Suppose I send an email and for whatever reason wish that I hadn't sent it, can I go back to my sent email and then delete the text body from the

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Same Sex Marriage - 1/16/2015

Presently there are thirty-six States and the District of Columbia that recognize same sex marriage. A recent poll study shows that 55% of all Americans are now in favor of legalization of same sex m

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Masks - 1/14/2015

I had some down time earlier tonight and had the television running for background noise. The station I was watching was TLC, the learning channel.

They were running a program on Fetish oddi

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Cuddle Party - 1/10/2015

Maybe I am behind the times but is a Cuddle Party something new? I have never heard of them until recently when I was asked if I wanted to attend one.

I was invited by a couple that are acqua

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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E-Cigs Vaporing - 1/9/2015

A lot of folks as a preference prefer non smokers so how does that affect those who choose to vape either as an alternative to actual cigarettes or as a means to quit smoking?

The questions a

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Gas Prices Down - 1/8/2015

With the current drop in crude prices resulting in gas at the pump being the lowest in some 6-7 years, do you see this changing your habits?

An example of habits may be like the distance you

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Submit Button - 1/6/2015

I'm curious to know why people will hit the submit button more than once? Also after they have hit it a half dozen times or more why they do not go back and delete the extra repeated question?

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Are you ready for some football? - 1/5/2015

Just posting this to see if anyone has any interest in the playoff picture. Is your team still in the hunt or have a favorite from among the contenders? Any prediction as to the Superbowl?

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New Year Tradition - 12/30/2014

Just curious as to what tradition other folks may have for bringing in the new year. Here in Texas it has always been traditional to have black eye peas as your first meal.

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Standard vs. Gold - 12/18/2014

When it comes to standard and gold members contacting you (email, messenger, blog etc.) with all things being equal (preferences match, complete profiles, photos etc.) are you more than likely to answ

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50 Shades of Christmas - 12/15/2014

Being that it is getting closer to Christmas I thought I would like to take a moment to wish all of the good folks here a Merry Christmas.

I am a native Texan and wish folks here a "Feliz Nav

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Sexless Pumpkin Update - 12/12/2014

This is an update to the question I asked in the advice lines on December 1st. Sexless Pumpking Question

The pumpkins were used by me for Halloween and Thanksgiving decorations.

After ex

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laidbacknready4u 66 M
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Phishing Bots? - 12/11/2014

In the last several weeks I have received dozens of views from newly created local profiles of single females or 2 females couples with a similar tag line and text in the body of the profiles like wha

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Blogs & Posts - 12/3/2014

Okay, I hate to admit this but I've been on this site eight years and don't know how to go about creating my blog. Will some of you cool cats lend a hand? It shows on my profile that I have a blog but

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Sexless Pumpking Question - 12/1/2014

Yup you read the title right, I have a question nothing to do with sex but does have to do with pumpkins.

Back in October I decorated my lawn for Halloween. Part of the decorations was a pump

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Metabolism - 11/29/2014

With Thanksgiving behind us and another long month of preparations for the Christmas and New Year Day feasts are there any proven approved over the counter product that will help jump start my metabol

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Pets Owners - 11/26/2014

We all put many things on our profiles about ourselves to give others a perspective about who we are, but if you are a pet owner is that something you give consideration to? I ask that question becaus

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Humpday Wedensday - 11/19/2014

My question is, are you more likely than not to accept a meet and greet during the week as opposed to the weekend?

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Thanksgiving - 11/3/2014

With Halloween over just this past weekend I am looking forward toward Thanksgiving. I say that anticipating some wild theme based party. Any suggestions as to ideas to incorporate? Thanks in advance.

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Top Fan Sent Mail - 10/27/2014

Hopefully this is a simple email question. I am enjoying the top fan program that the site offers as I assume many of you are too. Being a standard member it affords me an opportunity to initiate emai

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Mobile APP for instant messenger - 10/14/2014

My question is, what is your experience using a mobile app to log on the messenger? For myself it seems to take a longer time to send or it simply sits there displaying "waiting to respond" when I try

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Standard Privileges - 1/29/2013

Ok I figure this has been asked but then I didn't see it.

With the new formatting are there any Standard Privileges anymore?

Been on this site quite a number of years as a standard m

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Affiliate Suspended - 6/20/2012

Has anyone received this message?

"Affiliate Suspended You received this message because you were most likely directed to AdultFriendFinder by one of our affiliates who was using marketing

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Online Dating Site Lawsuit - 1/5/2011

It was reported in today's news, that Dallas based Match, an online dating service was being sued.

Several plaintiffs were hoping to get class action status. At issue is the number of members

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Wonderful Wacky Day - Not! - 1/4/2011

Okay dudes and dudettes I'm here like a whupped pup with my tail between my legs - NOT!

I got reported and my screen name deactivated for my earlier post. Had to go have a talk with the abuse

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Hot listing Fakes - 10/20/2010

I know all about the fake flirts but just the past two days I have gotteen a rash of Hotlisting.

Just as immediate as the alert come the profile is history.

Anyone else? How long has

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What could you do... What would you do? - 10/16/2010

I recently had a play date that was made and agreed upon in advance, you know I even had hoped it could turn into a standing play date.

Anyway prior to the proposed play date I also had sched

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Old School / Back To School - 10/13/2009

I find myself with a lot of extra time on my hands and was thinking about finishing up some college.

My question is what do you personally think of colleges or universities that offer online

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My Opinion on State of Advice Line - 7/31/2009

Well I must admit the advice lines have in my opinion hit an all time low.

It is shameless that any site run for profit would continue to let the multi-profiling troll(s) all but hijack this

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Bling to gift you aka Pimping my bling - 7/20/2009

Anyone what free bling gifted to them, then drop me an email. I normally do this around Christmas but what the hell.

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Digital Converter - 6/15/2009

Just wondering what other peoples experiences have been here in the states since broadcast signals went to digital?

I know there are probably many of you that have satellite, a cable subscrip

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More questions of email - 6/1/2009

I don't recall seeing this particular question ask so think I will.

Does the time of day or night that an email is written or sent have any bearing upon it's content.

Say I sent you

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Anyone else got this bug? - 5/21/2009

Seems like I have a very isolated bug here on AdultFriendFinder or maybe not.

The bug prevents my profile from showing as to being online when a "Who's Online" or "My Online Matches" search is done.

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More Bling to Gift You - 3/21/2009

It's that time again, here offering to gift you some of my blings.

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Free Bling - 1/12/2009

Anyone want some free bling gifted?

Not looking for points, flowers, kudos, testimonies, invites ir anything else in exchange.

Just shamelessly pimping my bling.

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Virtual Flowers / Auto Response - 12/17/2008

Just dropping in to make all aware of a new site bug.

The bug sends virtual flowers out with your Auto Response. There is no feature button that lets you make this selection.

The bug

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Free Bling for Christmas - 12/4/2008

I'm happy to gift my bling to anyone wanting some for their profile.

I have made quite a few and sure there is something to fit anyones profile.

Just drop me a line or post here and

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Points deduction/ Read mail Bug - 11/18/2008

This is just to make all that are concerned over their points that the site updated yesterday. In doing so they have a bug that notifies the sender of email that their email has been read by the recip

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Women Squirting & Taste - 9/19/2008

There is often many questions on the A/L regarding the taste of men's cum and what can be done to change it, but I have failed to see this asked about women.

I have experienced women with the

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Email question - 9/8/2008

Just wondering if anyone knew if when a member has elected to turn on the option that stops others from initiating email if that also effects answering email received by that member too?

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Flame Retardant to Assholes - 7/13/2008

This is an intentional post for Assholes to answer. So if the shoe fits have at it!

Oh and by the way you Assholes come in all genders, shapes, sizes, color and preferences.

Though w

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Of Legal Age - 7/12/2008

Online Now! Member Since: July 19, 2007 Birthdate: December 15, 1989 (18 years old)

Is it me or did this member join AdultFriendFinder when they were a 17 year old? Since they will be 19 in December 2008 t

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Another question about Mail - 7/10/2008

Just a simple question here.

Email Filters/Confirmed ID.

When responding to mail received from a member that has their filter set for confirmed ID and being that I do not have confir

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Oh Woe is Me! - 7/6/2008

What to do, oh what to do? Here's the deal.

I've been in contact with a couple now for about two months. There were a couple of meets planned and scuddled for one reason or the other on both

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Age - 5/10/2008

I was contacted by a member whose profile state that they are twenty. In their second email to me they state they are 18.

When I visited the profile I can see they have been a member several

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Friends Network Question - 2/6/2008

Can someone explain the folllowing:

A person is in your network and then you notice the person is removed.

Thinking that perhaps their profile is turned off or being updated you coul

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Fly on the wall/ Gina - 1/21/2008

It is I said the fly to all his minions. Like you, I once was a mere maggot content to gag on the contents of shit. Unlike you I envisioned a time that I could fly and rise above it all. The time is a

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Cam Viloence - 1/16/2008

I was viewing a couple's cam, nothing un-ordinary happening just some modest foreplay.

Something made the lady mad and she got up and walked out of the camera's view and did not return.
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Bling Editor - 1/7/2008

Is anyone else having this particular problem?

I am trying to edit a saved bling that I have not finished. When I get to the bling editor page I have my tools and color chart but no grid or b

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Email w/Flowers - 1/3/2008

When reading an email sent with flowers attached how many points does the recipient earn per flower?...

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Roses - 1/3/2008

When sending or giving someone roses what is the appropriate use between yellow and red ones? ...

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In box mail and is this happening to you? - 1/2/2008

Within the last week I have noticed that with certain mail that I have received and read but before I could send a reply, the text of the message has been removed and replaced with the following-


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A Bling Question - 12/26/2007

Do you like the use of bling? I think they add a certain quailty to ones profile or blogs.

Why are some of the reasons you may take or accept bling?

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Thank You, Merry Christmas & Free Bling Part II - 12/21/2007

I posted this yesterday had such a good response I wanted to do it again.

Remember when you are gifted bling you must click accept or decline for each bling. After accepting bling you have

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Thank You Merry Christmas & Free Bling - 12/20/2007

Had a great time the past year on AdultFriendFinder so this is just to say Thank You, Merry Christmas & Free Bling to everyone. Anyone that wants some of my small bling just drop me a email and I will gift you them

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Hosting A Party - 12/19/2007

Just wondering how many when hosting a party feel comfortable enough to allow out of towners to stay over rather than require that they get a room?

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A Hair Question - 12/18/2007

As we all know there are many physical characteristics that attracts one person to another. So I was just wondering if the length of a man's hair, or lack there of, would ever be a definite turn off.

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Body Paint - 12/15/2007

Just looking for a recommendation of a safe body paint. Ideally it could be worn for a prolonged period of time, say up to six to eight hours, easy to apply and remove without making a mess.

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Bling Group - 12/8/2007

No question here just some heads up on a nice group for you bling makers or those of you who just like to collect them.

Groups > Topical Groups > Blogging > Bling Enthusiasts Group [bling 110

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Blocking Responders - 11/24/2007

I have posted about a dozen questions on here, none of which I thought were inappropriate, repetitive, ignorant, argumentive, etc.

I have not posted just to get attention, points, want you to

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just wondering - 11/23/2007

Just wondering if the holidays are a good time to plan an individual meet and greet?

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Pussy Farts - 11/19/2007

Recently I was with a woman that during sex she would experience for the lack of better words "pussy farts".

Now I know this is just caused by some of the positions that we were in and the ex

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LOSER? - 11/5/2007

What would you think if there was something like the Most Respected Responders (MRR) list, except this would be List Of Shame Entire Responses (LOSER)? Results would be based on the disagrees voted on

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instant messenger bots - 10/29/2007

Okay I know the instant messenger on this site has it share of problems and a lot of members do not care for it or use it but, for those of you who do use it have you noticed how the cam bots have tak

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Compatability Question - 10/24/2007

When looking for members or contacted by others, what are the most important common factors to you for a mutual match?

Let's say for sake of clarification they fit you profile preferences.
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Network Invites - 10/23/2007

I was just wondering how long an invite will remain showing on another members page, one that has neither been accepted nor declined?

How long would you extend an invite before canceling?

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First meet question - 10/22/2007

I have been in correspondence with a member that is wanting to meet with me, no big deal I know.

The problem is distance wise.

This member made initial contact, an offer to provide a

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Hot List - 10/18/2007

Often, when I see someone online that I may be interested in, I will hotlist the screen name and go back and view the profile later.

Now I know that it will stay indefintely in my list and sh

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Upcomming Events Notices - 10/11/2007

Just wondering why AdultFriendFinder didn't have like a bullentin board where members could post notices of special events, meet and greets, house parties etc.

Oh I know some members will post such things

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Who's on line - 10/1/2007

Thought I would ask a question about the site that I have not seen before or at least do not think I have. I am only asking this to give more variety to the type of posting here instead of the same qu

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Email Filtering Question - 9/30/2007

Here's the problem. A party has sent 4 email trying to contact me. Their have preference setting to filter their email of those that have not confirmed their ID. I have not confirmed my ID. I have rep

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Popularity privileges - 9/22/2007

As a standard member here I have been fortunate to frequently recieve these privileges. The reward given is the ability to access fifty profiles and expires after viewing the fiftith profile. However

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