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rm_Sunaptein 55 M
3  questions
Can a couple have truly unconditional love? - 7/13/2021

Is there anybody here who still believes in unconditional love between a couple? I myself believe on strong bonds, but I think unconditional love can only be held by a parent for a . Can you believe in unconditional love, and also be able to verbalize the things that attracted you to that person in the first place? If you can give reasons for attraction, wouldn't those qualify as ...

14 response(s), 2 votes
rm_BiF33Ut 50 F
2  questions
Like I'm Not Going To Notice? - 7/13/2021

Ok, I have fallen among the ranks of the baffled here. You invest time and energy in passing a couple emails back and forth, perhaps a phone call or two, and then the big day comes. It's time to meet face to face. A moment of truth, if you will. <br> You wait for a 40-something man, full head of hair, decent build based on description (or pics), "doesn't scare small " for ...

31 response(s), 25 votes
uk31Sweetie 55 C
2  questions
Getting something in return??? - 7/13/2021

So here is my thing, i have this little fetish of seeing other people, with or without my partner which seems the norm on here. But i want to get something in return!! i dont mean like a but a little like one, the thought that someone is willing to give me something in return for fucking me really does turn me on. <br> Dont get this wrong people, this is not a advertisment for ...

14 response(s), 8 votes
BlindfoldedClit 60 F
3  questions
Shaved or unshaven - 7/13/2021

I am a grown woman and have the usual amount of bodily hair. <br> I've done a few videos and webcams and get quite a lot of comments saying how pleased viewers are to see the hair and the fact that I have not shaved. <br> However, at the same time I get some comments asking me to shave. <br> The main takes my mind takes into account on this are: [1] women ...

14 response(s), 9 votes
BlindfoldedClit 60 F
3  questions
Shaved or unshaven - 7/13/2021

I am a grown woman and have the usual amount of bodily hair. <br> I've done a few videos and webcams and get quite a lot of comments saying how pleased viewers are to see the hair and the fact that I have not shaved. <br> However, at the same time I get some comments asking me to shave. <br> The main takes my mind takes into account on this are: [1] women ...

23 response(s), 19 votes
rm_bifem4cpl666 44 C
1  question
no sleep - 7/13/2021

is there any mums on this site who can give me any advice on getting my 2 too sleep

4 response(s), 2 votes
heresjohnny1981 26 M
14  questions
groups - 7/13/2021

theres a group on this site which is called caught by a family member now i joined it because a had a genuine post to put there(check it out)but some of it sounds more like abuse and insest doyou not think that a.f.f should use some of there control of certain posting that sound a bit unusal

6 response(s), 4 votes
BLkItalCubn11 62 M
5  questions
Not A Question; Just a Rebuttal to SENSUOUS AND SULTRY - 7/13/2021

10/4/2005: Just for sultry and Sensuous. Seems my retaliation against the more ignorant and definitely less than objective and far from observant, feel that I am not able to "formulate the concept of free speech" that in itself is an inaccurate statement. First I DID make clear clarification that this was a DISCUSSION QUESTION. Not sure what these two (SENSUOUS AND SULTRY) find confusing ...

14 response(s), 13 votes
rm_Strawmango 72 M
2  questions
Is coming to this place like going to a candy shop? - 7/13/2021

I came here originally just looking for ONE specific kind of thing, knowing clearly what I was interested in finding. But, after reviewing the many options that you choose from when you create your profile, I found myself choosing more and more of the OTHER "options" which I wouldn't have considered before I came here. Now I find that I've ended up selecting about a dozen kinds of ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
CHOOSING THE ONE - 7/13/2021

WHAT IS A PERSON TO DO WHEN your GIRLFRIEND'S EX COME BACK INTO TOWN AND SHE SUDDENLY STARTS ACTING LIKE YOU DO NOT EXIST, start spend more time with him on the phone, make you watch the while she out wiht him and the ask you where mommy at? She comes to get around 11 or 12 at night and apologize for the late arrival and wont explain when she late. SHe fails to you that while he is town ...

11 response(s), 4 votes
is this fair - 7/13/2021

my husband want to ground our 10 yrs old , we had her before we got married and he mad with her for running up the phone bill to 200 dollars. i told him that was pointless to ground her for that but he threaten to cut off my allowance for speaking up for her. Do you think this is so minor to ground a for. someone already threatened to call protective services on us after she complained ...

16 response(s), 14 votes
WARNING! - Dangerous Sex! - 7/13/2021

I'm completely prepared to be flamed for not asking a question but I do have some advice that I feel should be passed along. <br> A few weeks ago someone posted a question regarding sex in a hot tub. Engaging in this activity myself on a fairly regular basis, I responded by pointing out the concerns of irritation to a woman’s delicate tissue caused by lack of lubrication, ...

10 response(s), 11 votes
Why do you pretend? - 7/13/2021

Why do women, men, and couplesgo through all the trouble of chatting and exchanging and pics if they are never going to meet in person? I dont understand whats the point in being on a site like this if you dont want to actually meet people.

8 response(s), 13 votes
hi - 7/13/2021

my 10 yr old got mad because her dad grounded her. she snuck out of the house while i was sleep and was gone forr a long time. i suspect she has a bf. this is why she ran up the phone bill. i called that number that was on the phone bill and a guy picked up. i tried to talk to him and asked him if he new my . he said no. i suspected he did so i called right back and he picked up but ...

14 response(s), 4 votes
responders - 7/13/2021

every post i put out i get the very same people answering all the time. thanks for being interested in knowing my life. most relatives and neighbors won't even listen to me. but if you would personally email me your telephone number i can call you and get more advice. but i have another issue, my husband was telling me about this friend he has at his job that needs a place to stay ...

24 response(s), 26 votes
Cruisin1on1 to clarify some things for the posters - 7/13/2021

i am female and my shadow appears female to me so i don't know why some people thought i was male. my husband did give me a monkey card but it was awhile back. i didn't get anything for my birthday this year and i'm mad about that.my profile says single because i can put that there if i want and think i may be getting a divorce. what's it to you people anyway that looking for nothing but ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
Ladies and Gentlemen I need your input please. - 7/13/2021

I've been invold in a relationship for over 2 1/2 years now. We meet thur an adult dating site. Iwantu. It started out as just sex and soon there after became more. We have no problems in our sex life or our relationship. We are great friends and lovers. Aug.2004 we found out I was pregnant. He was there for everything....Dr. appointments, ultra sounds, ect.... Oct. 2004 I found out he ...

16 response(s), 13 votes
When illness gets in the way.... - 7/13/2021

I would not consider myself happily married, just married and in a holding pattern. My wife has, for the last seven years since the birth of our second , gotten sicker <br> and sicker. Especially over the past three years, as she has begun to take more and more medications for everything from migraines to depression to fibromyalgia, she has become more and more ...

26 response(s), 20 votes
my skanked husband was sleep - 7/13/2021

i was bored and kind of went through his wallet. i found some lent, 2 tens, a five and three ones and a couple of dimes. then he had some other stuff in his wallet like a ladys picture. this is a differnt lady than the one he pointed out to me on the job to come stay with us temporarily in my last post. i figured this was one of his girlfriends. someone told me that they saw a woman coming ...

11 response(s), 8 votes
my husband has a good job - 7/13/2021

i don't have to work. i just had to tell you all that but anyway he woke up mumbling something about his credit card and i paid him no mind. him and my got into it because she burned up the rice. she was helping me cook. so it messed up dinner. my husband was hollering and yelling. he was so mad and hollering that i could smell his breath from way across the room. he looks so ugly when he ...

11 response(s), 2 votes
barabond 42 M
1  question
Parent Definitions - 7/13/2021

AMNESIA: condition that enables a woman who has gone through labor to have sex again. <br> BOTTLE FEEDING: an opportunity for Daddy to get up at 2 AM too. <br> DEFENSE: what you'd better have around the yard if you're going to let the play outside. <br> DROOLING: how teething babies wash their chins. <br> DUMB WAITER: one who asks if the would care to ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
DIVISION77 43 M
24  questions
Pre-conceived Notions? - 7/13/2021

I had no preconceived notions of "true love" or anything like that, a bit contrived to expect that from a website. <br> I was mainly looking for pale goth/industrial chicks to have fun with when I signed up here. <br> However, I was not prepared for what I would find. I was expecting single women around my age, but mostly what I've seen "interest wise" are older women, ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
sharesherry4all 57 F
1  question
How do I say thanks - 7/13/2021

I have been on here twice before asking about my behavior and how it is affecting my . Well I am here to just say thanks, I have taken several members advice. Lindsay and I have never bben so close, we are able to share everthing now. After fessing up to my less than desirable deeds she says she now feels she can discuss anything with me with out being misjudged or being embarrased. I admit ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
nice4u47 70 M
2  questions
Straight People - 7/13/2021

Was curious if any one else out there had similar esperiences through their years. A friend of mine when we where in our early teens used to sneak and look at playboys etc. we would play with ourselfs get all excited then stash the magazines. When we both learned that we could fully cum we get together and look at magazines and jack off. One day we decided to get naked and measure our ...

17 response(s), 22 votes
rm_XXX_Lil_imp 44 F
0  questions
evolution in men and female roles - 7/13/2021

The more I study relationships and human behavior the more I notice a change in male and female roles. How does a woman maintain her uniqueness and power as a lady in a man powered world? I wonder if I am the only one who is concerned with the way everything in relationships have changed. Instead of a courtship and a prelonged dating and engagement before marriage, there is only one or two ...

13 response(s), 9 votes
I must have been mistaken. I thought this was a place to get advice. - 7/13/2021

Have I come to the wrong place? I keep asking questions, but I am getting more criticisms than I am advice. <br> Just because I know what I know does not mean I know it all. I am only 22, but I have seen a lot and done a lot. I obviously have things to learn or I would not be here. <br> When a person asks for advice, I would think they are looking for help or ...

15 response(s), 6 votes
Ladies who have had ??? - 7/13/2021

When you had your , did your lover taste your breast milk? If so, did they like it?

14 response(s), 41 votes
rm_Faith352 51 F
0  questions
I need some advice and please don’t hold back… - 7/13/2021

I have met a man from this site and from the minute we met, there was an instant connection, one that doesn’t happen very often. A friend of mine met us for drinks one night and said that “there are definite fireworks between the two of us” We share some of the same experiences, same values, and family upbringing. <br> He has been married for 14yrs, recently ...

18 response(s), 13 votes
iownahouseforsex 46 M
1  question
why would an uncut cock be tasteful? - 7/13/2021

I've recently found and responded to another question here somewhat closely related to mine that got me thinking of another question- the age old one: which is better? cut or uncut? i thought about calling for a vote, but i know it would reveal a majority for "cut", it does come down to personal preference (that is, if a guy keeps himself clean!), and it is kind of beating a point into the ...

13 response(s), 13 votes
goodstuff1954 65 C
7  questions
whats a hippy? - 7/13/2021

true i grew up in that time frame but i never meet a hippy or even seen one. saw people drive around with flowers all over their car, van , or bus. was dumb enough to call them a flower but guess what they where still PEOPLE different oppions than mine but they where still human.

9 response(s), 13 votes