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how do I - 7/15/2021

how do i save my marriage? <br> right now im deployed in iraq and am taking a long hard look at my marriage. we have been together for 5years now and have three . she is a stay at home mom. and does not like sex she has no drive and it hurts. i know im a rather tall man6'9" and above average cock size but cmon. the woman has no intrest in sex. in the five years whe have been ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
married sexy mommy!!!! - 7/15/2021

What is wrong with having ? I have and I love them and I would do anything in the world for them but people I am human I have needs and I am sexy not to be shallow or anything!!! Men around here see I have and they find out they are mine they are back off and say to bad well they are losing out>

6 response(s), 4 votes
babybear150101 53 C
4  questions
oral sex from guys - 7/15/2021

Ladies how many of us has heard from a guy that they are really good at oral but out of all honesty they SUCK at it? I hate more than anything when a guy leaves you all sloppy and wet (and not from me getting off) or he is down there making all kinds of slirping noises it reminds me of a licking his balls.

22 response(s), 25 votes
Vasectomy? - 7/15/2021

My wife is about to have our third , and while I love my very much I think that three are plenty. I'm considering a vasectomy and wondered if there are any others out there who have experience with this procedure and what you all think about it?

1 response(s), 1 vote
Why stifle a question's? - 7/15/2021

I for one am tired of old men trying to stifle a question about race, especially from the young people.. Why is it ok for a 40+ black woman to ask, "Does white men like to sleep with black women?", and yet it is wrong for a 20 yr old to ask, "Does a guys race effect his size?"..She's called a racist, others are called morons and then saying they will be glad when all the voting is gone? ...

14 response(s), 31 votes
Is this love? - 7/15/2021

I've been online dating for a few months now and as far as I'm concerned I'm totally and completely in love with this guy, no doubt about his feelings as well, although he's much more reserved in expressing his emotions. But what I really want to understand is why he never ever says anything that would lead us to more sexual discussion, some hot chat... As soon as I try to tease him a ...

4 response(s), 1 vote
wetnwild69fine 50 F
5  questions
Breast Feeding a grown man? - 7/15/2021

My boyfriend loves to suck my tits (what man doesn't enjoy this activity)What has me concerned and leads me to post this question is that he likes to pretend that he is breast feeding wich totaly wierded me out at first, but I must admit Iv'e come to enjoy , and what has me worried is the fact that I have begun to lactate.I breast fed all of my for at least one year each but that was 9 ...

3 response(s), 5 votes
are the stories true? - 7/15/2021

Often as a , I was told of a time when men and women got to know each other before jumping in the sack. Now I'm not talking about a couple of dates, and hazzah! I am talking about a nice chunk of time. I am just curious because for the last couple of years, I have been looking for this breed of female. I am just curious really. Do they have some gathering place? I don't mean women who ...

11 response(s), 36 votes
fastlearner63 63 F
8  questions
older women - 7/15/2021

do all the men on a.f.f. look for the 18year old female with the perky tits and tight ass..??? there are a lot of us older females here who are as sexy...and well have the knowledge of how to please a male ..i am to a relaxed place in my life where the dont know on the bedroom door..or up all night sick..and just wonder why ..they go for the younger females...????and ...

56 response(s), 121 votes
will i find the guy that i am looking for? - 7/15/2021

I am trying to find someone that is decent and will be patient with me knowing that i have a that lives with me and that i am not always going to be able to give him the attention that he needs and wants but respects me and my body aswell. am i setting my sights up to high or not high enough? he doesnt have to be a pretty boy but he does need to know on how to look after themselves.

10 response(s), 9 votes
Was your first time worth it?? - 7/15/2021

I was a freshman in Highschool and skipped school with my girlfriend. Went to her house, it was the first time for her as well. Her mom came home for lunch almost got caught. Both of us naked under her bed till she left. Yes for me it was worth every second of it. <br> Was your first time what you hoped it would be? and where. <br> If you were then I'm sorry to hear that. ...

2 response(s), 4 votes
Fantasys on back! - 7/15/2021

Have You ever Made love to a Person in a Haystack in the Barn or On Horseback? Ummmmmm....Cum on lets hear from you!

5 response(s), 6 votes
rm_MasterEbOnIc 40 M
1  question
how can one maintaine sanity - 7/15/2021

one may lose sanity through a rough lesson in life well as a i found that to lose one sanity hade to be an extream like lossing ones family member, still a one can cope with the pain by covering it up to be strong for the other members of the family. having such a divirce chalenge as a it can cause a young to lose an emotion that is key to being a person of sanity. over the years what ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
Well , Once every 6 to8 weeks too much pressure? - 7/15/2021

Wow, Im getting bashed here. Yes been to the doctors with her. yes I am patient, yes I hold hands, try to cuddle, I light the candles, make romantic dinners, I cook 6/7 times a week and do the dishes.I spend most of the time with my , I watch him all the time and stay home so she can get out of the house. I even get along with her ex husband and she visits him and talks to him all the ...

8 response(s), 15 votes
sex after (For the ladies mainly) - 7/15/2021

How many women out there have ? If you do and you have at least 2, do you still want sex? I ran into a problem with my wife where after she had our second she just wasn't interested anymore, is anyone else like this?

5 response(s), 3 votes
gonzo729 54 M
4  questions
Here we go! - 7/15/2021

I'm more than likely going to get mostly negative responses to this one. I' more than a little put off by many of the responses directed towards "cheaters" here. A man says he's married & he's scum of the earth for doing this to his wife. Look thru the womens profiles, you'll find plenty that are married & looking for a little somthing on the side. That's okay because somehow the man must ...

10 response(s), 24 votes
needingsomeloven 48 M
1  question
no sex in a relationship is that wrong? - 7/15/2021

I got back together with my ex-wife and we have two wonderfull girls. But now she does not want to have sex or even sleep in the same bed. So I decided to go on this web page. When we were divorced she would have flings and now does not want anything to do with sex, since she had a bad exsperince when she was you. But it did not slow us down before or after our divorce. So i'm I wrong for ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
In rebut to DR.PHIL comment - 7/15/2021

I have been patiently waiting for two years for the roller coaster to stop with the wife. I am stuck.I quit my job and became Mr Mom from day One. I was the one up all night , she had nice meds to keep her sleeping.we saved enough money where we did not have to work. She does not work now, she sleeps most of the time.I went back to work only to have to come back home because it was too ...

9 response(s), 5 votes
Why is it A MAN can forgive and forget,Women never do? - 7/15/2021

We recently had a huge arguement with Her over something that happened four years ago. Something that was said. <br> We men have them with ex girlfiends and or wifes just the same. We are men that stay home , non controling.want to be faithful, attentive, a good listener , communicator, romantic, spontaneous, giving, hard working, space givers, non jealous, cooks , helpers ...

7 response(s), 8 votes
How to approach a thong wearing ? - 7/15/2021

I feel like a dirty old man at school most of the time. Thongs and tight young flesh everywhere! Occassionally there would be a 5 second long eye to eye conversation but nothing serious. Just wondering how do an almost 40 year old approach young hot cuties. Surely, a few of them would have a fantasy about screwing the life out of an older man like myself. Just don't want to get embarrassed ...

6 response(s), 4 votes
looneytunes88 48 F
2  questions
enyone met a family member during a dogging session - 7/15/2021

I was having fun out with my partner dogging and afew gents had joined in my favorite position is doggy style as you can have more men not bothering who they are, after one session i was being taken from behind and blow jobbing a guy in front of me when they swopped, during the swap over i saw that the man who had been behind me was my step father so i stopped and we were both really ...

2 response(s), 13 votes
KinkyCandyLicker 45 M
55  questions
Man or stud? - 7/15/2021

Right now there are a lot women trying to sleep with me. For what reason, I don't know? Don't get me wrong, I love the attention, blow jobs, and all the great sex. I do use protection every single time, I'm not a fool. I'm a single guy so I'm not cheating on anyone but, there's so many I feel like it's a job not a pleasure sometimes. I know I shouldn't be complaining but, If I sleep with ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
Emailing a family member's ex girlfriend - 7/15/2021

I am emailing the exgirlfriend of a family member. He has specifically told me he doesn't want me to talk to her. He says he doesn't want her to know that I am related to him. He claims she will get mad at him. <br> She is the mother of their deceased . He doesn't like her, for unmentioned reasons. I am not interested in dating her or even having sex with her. I am getting a ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
looneytunes88 48 F
2  questions
is he gay or not ???? - 7/15/2021

my best friend ever was worried that his was gay not that it matters to me. any how he would often bring his who was 17 at the time over to my house during parties, meals and such like. all very respectable i might add he is a lovely lad but his father was obsessed whether he was gay or not. so his started babysitting for me and my previous partner and would sleep over. after about 3 ...

4 response(s), 7 votes
rm_horny_dad4 53 M
0  questions
So why are you here? - 7/15/2021

I've just recently started here on this site to see what it was all about and what kind of people you can find here. So far I've seen all types of people from arrogant to timid. What I want to know is why all of you have joined. I've read some articles where people talk about what makes them run from a profile, what they look for, and what kind of person they are looking for. Everyone ...

21 response(s), 42 votes
hotwifejen 52,1951 C
0  questions
Why do married men love it when their wives dress up and act like sluts in public? - 7/15/2021

My husband loves it when I dress like a and go to dance clubs and bars. He watches in the corner as I dance with other men and buy me drinks. Then is surprised when I ask to bring one home to fuck... I give up.

8 response(s), 10 votes
??? - 7/15/2021

Hi, why is that some man think that they can e-mail you their with saying as little as call me ! Do men really think us ladies will jump at that chance with out so much as knowing a little bit about them ? I for one do not answer e-mails with just a phone number. What about others what do u do ? thanks

39 response(s), 77 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
I WASNT COMPLIMENTING YOU LADY/OR MAN! - 7/15/2021

FOR ALL THOSE AdultFriendFinder WHO ARE RUDE TO YOUNG WOMEN AND MEN.TO NEW /CUSTOMERS & WHO EMAIL FOR STUPID CONCERNS, MEN & OTHER WOMEN.FOR ALL THOSE MEN POSING AS WOMEN.AND ALL WOMEN POSING AS MEN, YOU ALLMAKE IT HARD FOR THE REST TO FUNCTION & HAVE PRODUCTIVE LIFES ON AdultFriendFinder.DONT ACT LIKE YOURE MISS READING OR DONT UNDERSTAND.YOU ALL KNOW WHO YOU ARE?ITS NOT FAR TO THE ONES WHO DO IT CORRECTLY&LESBIAN ...

7 response(s), 7 votes
looneytunes88 48 F
2  questions
why so many idiots???????????? - 7/15/2021

I joined this site to meet new people and have fun which by large thats what i've had. yes i like sex and i'm not affraid to admit it but the amount of emails /messages i get from idiots just saying "wanna shag", "lets get it on", " i can fuck u hard" where is the profile, the photo, the chat up, the smooth talk and most of all honesty i'm honest on site i dont consider myself a slag ...

10 response(s), 15 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
what would youre mother&parents think? - 7/15/2021

what would the mom in the suburbs with the white pickett fench think of her or on here?some people have very taste ful pics&some dont?what would you say?would you leave AdultFriendFinder then?what if she, he or them thought you were no diffrent then a sex predator? how would you feel? you all know this subject was on opera?watched some thats what we are?do you think?if you dont think so go tell ...

3 response(s), 2 votes