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NeedsITsoGood25 49 F
4  questions
Would you go? - 7/2/2021

I recently -after chatting for awhile-agreed to meet a guy that was coming in from out of town for his work.The first time he was coming to town he said he'd be in his room by like 8-9pm, he waited to text me until 11pm-at which point I could not go to meet w/ him-I had to work early in the a.m. and he was 1/2hr away.He said they only come down once a year so he'd have to wait til then to get ...

21 response(s), 26 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
lovers and pets.. - 7/2/2021

Thought this was kinda funny, ,, maybe weird, ,, Does anyone out there have problems with the family or cat being jealous of a partner, and doesn't want to leave the bed/ bedroom? I have to usually kennel up my dogs when my signifacant other comes over and we want to get it on. Was kinda cute at first when they wouldn't stay off the bed, or were always butting in between hugs, ,but then got ...

22 response(s), 28 votes
Cormac57 50 C
19  questions
So cute, they're HOT! - 7/2/2021

We've seen a lot of questions on here about what celebrities people find beautiful/hot, but we were thinking about something a little different. What about the "cute" people out there? Who do you think is so absolutely "cute" that they are actually HOT!?! We thought about Goldie Hawn and her Kate Hudson. Tell us your ideas!

12 response(s), 26 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
Your reactions - 7/2/2021

Sitting here tonight, a little bored, ,, thinking over the last year or so, at how much i have changed my sexual outlook, desires and practices, ,got wondering... if my knew that mom has gone from mild mannered housewife and mom, to sex craving maniac and bedroom , ,, what would their reactions be.

Have any of you wondered, or worried that if something happened to you, ,, and your had ...

12 response(s), 28 votes
Misbehavn2 55 C
37  questions
fourt of july - 7/1/2021

i live in a rather large neigborhood hundreds of houses, i was raised to respect this country as i was growing up several members of my family being in the milatary and all

on said holidays memorial the fourth vetrans day all of them i put out my flag if im not home one of my does it, but i can drive through out my neigborhood and only see a handfull of flags, funny how we can forget ...

8 response(s), 20 votes
bbcajnatx 56 M
0  questions
What is too kinky - 7/1/2021

I recently lost a fuck buddy because she said I was too kinky. We were playing out a -fantasy, and she said that was too much. Is that too kinky

19 response(s), 26 votes
rm_sxsrch3 32 M
34  questions
Truck Drivers - 7/1/2021

I was once a long haul/otr truck driver. I have had one lot lizard/ knock on my door. I did not take her up on her offer. However it did make me think.

How many people on here would think about dating a truck driver?

How many people on here would think about having sex with a truck driver?

How many people on here know a truck driver?

How many people on here ...

21 response(s), 21 votes
twoforone100 53 C
6  questions
What does the word " generous" imply when used in a profile - 7/1/2021

So what do you think about that someone is implying when they use the word " generous" in their profile?? example... looking for generous men..... We have always thought it meant a ... are we wrong? Patrick Pattie

29 response(s), 19 votes
Hey Girl Friend! - 7/1/2021

I went and picked my little nephew up... he was driving his mom closer to crazy! he is 9!

He gets in the car and says.... Hey girl friend! we need to go to toys r us! I let him know that toys r us wasn't in the budget! he says... well I hope the car wash is in the budget girl friend! cause you got dirt back here girl friend!... he is in the back seat... with his feet prints on the ...

27 response(s), 43 votes
laidbacknready4u 66 M
158  questions
Flame Retardant to Assholes - 7/1/2021

This is an intentional post for Assholes to answer. So if the shoe fits have at it!

Oh and by the way you Assholes come in all genders, shapes, sizes, color and preferences.

Though we live in an intolerant society for the most part, that does not exclude each of us from striving to change what is acceptable.

Adaptation has been and always will be the ...

18 response(s), 44 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Clue me in - 7/1/2021

While shopping today, Hanu purchased POP ROCKS for the . we looked at each other and laughed having heard something about using them during sex. Well it turns out that is the only thing we know of such. So I'd like to know how the candy comes into play? Does she have them in her mouth during oral? Is it I that gives her head while having them in my mouth?

I'm sure it would do nothing ...

13 response(s), 26 votes
PussyBoiTrainer 44 F
0  questions
Licking vs. Lapping..... - 7/1/2021

I was wondering how many women out there have experienced a man who went down on them to give them a good eating out, only to sound like a drinking water... slurping and lapping. And after they finish, thinks the wet bed is your pussy juices instead of all the slobber they just produced....

19 response(s), 23 votes
rm_jay782008 42 M
1  question
Proffesionals on AdultFriendFinder? - 7/1/2021

i have heard rumours that some of the profiles on here are of proffesionals looking to expand their just wondering if anyone has come across any if so do you have any amusing stories to tell about it.

14 response(s), 20 votes
rm_litmike75 50 C
18  questions
What's your opinion about Swinging? - 7/1/2021

Welcome to the Swingers Club




Is this an alternative solution to avoid cheating on your spouse?




I was reading a book on Sex Industry and an entry on the introduction page struck a very interesting question in my mind about the sexual revolution ...

14 response(s), 13 votes
rm_Nikkicole5 43 F
10  questions
Have you ever been accused of being a - 7/1/2021

I travel a lot for work. When I know that I am going to be in an area for more than a week, I search the area for potential play mates. I email them a month to six weeks before I get there and we usually talk by phone a few times before I arrive. This has worked many times but this time I had some really strange interactions. I will describe one:

My new friend and I were scheduled to ...

23 response(s), 32 votes
fatfreak5 53 F
1  question
????? - 7/1/2021

JUST BECAUSE A FEMALE CHOOSES TO HAVE A FEW FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS, DOES THIS MAKE HER A ?

37 response(s), 36 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
Tattoos,,the good, the bad, and the ugly... - 7/1/2021

I was reading a previous post, referencing a " stamp". I don't want to appear dumb, , but is this just a figure of speech, referring to all tats, , or is there a certain tat that is considered a " stamp"? I can see, rightfully so, where an employer would require tats covered up, ,but on the flip side, , unless one was to get them on their face, or some other very obvious place, which does not ...

20 response(s), 14 votes
rm_7upandinya 61 M
0  questions
Nite wear,,2 buy or not 2 buy??? - 7/1/2021

Q....I have invited a lady to go away on a lil romantic trip..Hot tub room, 4 person shower, n buggy ride all that good stuff.now the Q, ,, , would it be bad if i bought her a sexy niteware?When she thinks she is to fat to wear stuff like this!!she is a size 11-12... i think she will look great in a lil sum thing sum thing..Or is she useing reverse psyc, on me so i will buy her something???oh ...

16 response(s), 8 votes
  - 6/30/2021

why is this site allowing people to use it for ? Have met several here who want to chat and meet and then ask for three to five hundred dollars? i have reported as abuse but they and their profiles are still there.

20 response(s), 52 votes
rm_fd2ndcumming 34 F
1  question
Online compition what would you do if? - 6/30/2021

How would you feel if all of a sudden you found out you were unknowingly in compition with someone online? You had no idea this person even exists until he/ she slams you face, and pegs you as an imposter, a dirty , and not worth the privledge of evening continuing to be online? How would you handle the situation? Send them a personal email asking them to stop publicly abusiung you perhapse? And ...

28 response(s), 33 votes
hot4uinga 41 F
2  questions
Our - 6/30/2021

How can we justify being on Adult sites and tell our teens about the crazies out there and to stay away from these sites

16 response(s), 17 votes
The world wide web: Modern Day Confessional? - 6/30/2021

I posted an answer to a question that was swiftly deleted before it made the A/L for some reason earlier today.

The person was warning others to watch their backs in Cyberland as they had written something ( I presume something not very pleasant)about another member on here and it had resulted in consequences. They were warning others to watch out for backstabbing.

I posted this ...

13 response(s), 16 votes
rm_Woffies 52 M
6  questions
What things should you look out for when trying to meet people on line? - 6/30/2021

For the past few years (ok more than I would like to admit) I have been immersed into the Cyber Social Circles of various Fetish/Kink/Lifestyle sites. In that time you would be shocked how that common term ‘common sense’ is just not there. Yes- we all come here to relax a bit, meet new people in hopes that we can get a little Cyber Sunshine (or whatever you want to call it) but ...

6 response(s), 22 votes
rm_JP502008 66 M
1  question
Advice. Or should I just crawl back under my rock. - 6/30/2021

I have been reading your responses to questions here for some time and have come to respect some of you for the answers you have given. And now would like to ask you for advice for my situation.

First off I’m married…Ok put the rocks down till I finish K

Many years ago {18} my wife that I loved very much became sick with a infection that left her quite mentally ...

29 response(s), 39 votes
rm_jabberjaw222 46 M
0  questions
To Go or Not To Go - 6/30/2021

My girlfriend recently broke up with me over the decision to have (me: no, her: unsure). While I had stated my position within the first 3 dates notwithstanding, we did date for 4 months. Anyway, she decides to end the relationship because, while unsure, she wants to keep her options open and realizes I'm not going to change my opinion. Now she texts me and calls to ask me to come over. ...

10 response(s), 18 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
Have you ever had to have your "rescue" you? - 6/30/2021

Exactly what the title asks...Have you ever had to have your rescue you out of an EMBARRASSING situation?

I finally got a day off from work yesterday, and my SO and myself went for a joyride. Ended up by a river, , walked in some sand, enjoyed sights and sounds, , and then had some good old fashioned love making.What a wonderful day....

Then we leave the minimum maintenance ...

14 response(s), 23 votes
Pad8 43 C
9  questions
Emailing... - 6/30/2021

After you've met someone(s) here on AdultFriendFinder, exchanged and both wish to continue the meetings/relationship does email stop?

We've had a couple of experiences where after meeting the emails to make plans or just converse stop; the phone becomes the primary method of contact (not always as convenient for us).

Just wondering if this is the "norm". Why email when you can call kind-of ...

11 response(s), 7 votes
rm_dodger7645 48 F
56  questions
Dating? - 6/30/2021

Is there such a thing as dating anymore? My say that they aren't dating someone, they are talking. It seems as adults, if we go out with someone it is more like a job interview. It's like you are interviewing to see if you are qualified to have sex with them or not. Does anyone else feel this way? I know this is AdultFriendFinder, before someone flames my butt to remind me ...

9 response(s), 19 votes
rm_arbyq77 51 F
25  questions
Porn stars vs real women - 6/30/2021

This question is directed to the men but women are more than welcome to answer....

Im wondering after watching a couple of porn movies...is this what is sexy...the loud yelling... the moaning..the spitting on the penis...the choking....I mean I got excited by the noise from the girl dont get me wrong but I dont see my self as that extreme I do get loud I do like oral I dont spit ( ...

12 response(s), 13 votes
angeleyes4683 53 F
9  questions
A previous question that hit home for me ... the ex's pic - 6/30/2021

I'll try to make this as short as possible. I have been seeing this guy for two years, he has custody of his two . I have befriended his ex (mother of his ), I have invited her into my home, I have gone out my way to help her when she was in need; gave her food when she had no money, gave her rides when she had no money and no other means of transportation, took her shopping and bought her ...

9 response(s), 17 votes