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rm_Strawmango 72 M
2  questions
Is coming to this place like going to a candy shop? - 7/13/2021

I came here originally just looking for ONE specific kind of thing, knowing clearly what I was interested in finding. But, after reviewing the many options that you choose from when you create your profile, I found myself choosing more and more of the OTHER "options" which I wouldn't have considered before I came here. Now I find that I've ended up selecting about a dozen kinds of ...

2 response(s), 1 vote
CHOOSING THE ONE - 7/13/2021

WHAT IS A PERSON TO DO WHEN your GIRLFRIEND'S EX COME BACK INTO TOWN AND SHE SUDDENLY STARTS ACTING LIKE YOU DO NOT EXIST, start spend more time with him on the phone, make you watch the while she out wiht him and the ask you where mommy at? She comes to get around 11 or 12 at night and apologize for the late arrival and wont explain when she late. SHe fails to you that while he is town ...

11 response(s), 4 votes
is this fair - 7/13/2021

my husband want to ground our 10 yrs old , we had her before we got married and he mad with her for running up the phone bill to 200 dollars. i told him that was pointless to ground her for that but he threaten to cut off my allowance for speaking up for her. Do you think this is so minor to ground a for. someone already threatened to call protective services on us after she complained ...

16 response(s), 14 votes
WARNING! - Dangerous Sex! - 7/13/2021

I'm completely prepared to be flamed for not asking a question but I do have some advice that I feel should be passed along. <br> A few weeks ago someone posted a question regarding sex in a hot tub. Engaging in this activity myself on a fairly regular basis, I responded by pointing out the concerns of irritation to a woman’s delicate tissue caused by lack of lubrication, ...

10 response(s), 11 votes
Why do you pretend? - 7/13/2021

Why do women, men, and couplesgo through all the trouble of chatting and exchanging and pics if they are never going to meet in person? I dont understand whats the point in being on a site like this if you dont want to actually meet people.

8 response(s), 13 votes
hi - 7/13/2021

my 10 yr old got mad because her dad grounded her. she snuck out of the house while i was sleep and was gone forr a long time. i suspect she has a bf. this is why she ran up the phone bill. i called that number that was on the phone bill and a guy picked up. i tried to talk to him and asked him if he new my . he said no. i suspected he did so i called right back and he picked up but ...

14 response(s), 4 votes
responders - 7/13/2021

every post i put out i get the very same people answering all the time. thanks for being interested in knowing my life. most relatives and neighbors won't even listen to me. but if you would personally email me your telephone number i can call you and get more advice. but i have another issue, my husband was telling me about this friend he has at his job that needs a place to stay ...

24 response(s), 26 votes
Cruisin1on1 to clarify some things for the posters - 7/13/2021

i am female and my shadow appears female to me so i don't know why some people thought i was male. my husband did give me a monkey card but it was awhile back. i didn't get anything for my birthday this year and i'm mad about that.my profile says single because i can put that there if i want and think i may be getting a divorce. what's it to you people anyway that looking for nothing but ...

6 response(s), 7 votes
Ladies and Gentlemen I need your input please. - 7/13/2021

I've been invold in a relationship for over 2 1/2 years now. We meet thur an adult dating site. Iwantu. It started out as just sex and soon there after became more. We have no problems in our sex life or our relationship. We are great friends and lovers. Aug.2004 we found out I was pregnant. He was there for everything....Dr. appointments, ultra sounds, ect.... Oct. 2004 I found out he ...

16 response(s), 13 votes
When illness gets in the way.... - 7/13/2021

I would not consider myself happily married, just married and in a holding pattern. My wife has, for the last seven years since the birth of our second , gotten sicker <br> and sicker. Especially over the past three years, as she has begun to take more and more medications for everything from migraines to depression to fibromyalgia, she has become more and more ...

26 response(s), 20 votes
my skanked husband was sleep - 7/13/2021

i was bored and kind of went through his wallet. i found some lent, 2 tens, a five and three ones and a couple of dimes. then he had some other stuff in his wallet like a ladys picture. this is a differnt lady than the one he pointed out to me on the job to come stay with us temporarily in my last post. i figured this was one of his girlfriends. someone told me that they saw a woman coming ...

11 response(s), 8 votes
my husband has a good job - 7/13/2021

i don't have to work. i just had to tell you all that but anyway he woke up mumbling something about his credit card and i paid him no mind. him and my got into it because she burned up the rice. she was helping me cook. so it messed up dinner. my husband was hollering and yelling. he was so mad and hollering that i could smell his breath from way across the room. he looks so ugly when he ...

11 response(s), 2 votes
barabond 42 M
1  question
Parent Definitions - 7/13/2021

AMNESIA: condition that enables a woman who has gone through labor to have sex again. <br> BOTTLE FEEDING: an opportunity for Daddy to get up at 2 AM too. <br> DEFENSE: what you'd better have around the yard if you're going to let the play outside. <br> DROOLING: how teething babies wash their chins. <br> DUMB WAITER: one who asks if the would care to ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
DIVISION77 43 M
24  questions
Pre-conceived Notions? - 7/13/2021

I had no preconceived notions of "true love" or anything like that, a bit contrived to expect that from a website. <br> I was mainly looking for pale goth/industrial chicks to have fun with when I signed up here. <br> However, I was not prepared for what I would find. I was expecting single women around my age, but mostly what I've seen "interest wise" are older women, ...

5 response(s), 1 vote
sharesherry4all 57 F
1  question
How do I say thanks - 7/13/2021

I have been on here twice before asking about my behavior and how it is affecting my . Well I am here to just say thanks, I have taken several members advice. Lindsay and I have never bben so close, we are able to share everthing now. After fessing up to my less than desirable deeds she says she now feels she can discuss anything with me with out being misjudged or being embarrased. I admit ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
nice4u47 70 M
2  questions
Straight People - 7/13/2021

Was curious if any one else out there had similar esperiences through their years. A friend of mine when we where in our early teens used to sneak and look at playboys etc. we would play with ourselfs get all excited then stash the magazines. When we both learned that we could fully cum we get together and look at magazines and jack off. One day we decided to get naked and measure our ...

17 response(s), 22 votes
rm_XXX_Lil_imp 44 F
0  questions
evolution in men and female roles - 7/13/2021

The more I study relationships and human behavior the more I notice a change in male and female roles. How does a woman maintain her uniqueness and power as a lady in a man powered world? I wonder if I am the only one who is concerned with the way everything in relationships have changed. Instead of a courtship and a prelonged dating and engagement before marriage, there is only one or two ...

13 response(s), 9 votes
I must have been mistaken. I thought this was a place to get advice. - 7/13/2021

Have I come to the wrong place? I keep asking questions, but I am getting more criticisms than I am advice. <br> Just because I know what I know does not mean I know it all. I am only 22, but I have seen a lot and done a lot. I obviously have things to learn or I would not be here. <br> When a person asks for advice, I would think they are looking for help or ...

15 response(s), 6 votes
Ladies who have had ??? - 7/13/2021

When you had your , did your lover taste your breast milk? If so, did they like it?

14 response(s), 41 votes
rm_Faith352 51 F
0  questions
I need some advice and please don’t hold back… - 7/13/2021

I have met a man from this site and from the minute we met, there was an instant connection, one that doesn’t happen very often. A friend of mine met us for drinks one night and said that “there are definite fireworks between the two of us” We share some of the same experiences, same values, and family upbringing. <br> He has been married for 14yrs, recently ...

18 response(s), 13 votes
iownahouseforsex 46 M
1  question
why would an uncut cock be tasteful? - 7/13/2021

I've recently found and responded to another question here somewhat closely related to mine that got me thinking of another question- the age old one: which is better? cut or uncut? i thought about calling for a vote, but i know it would reveal a majority for "cut", it does come down to personal preference (that is, if a guy keeps himself clean!), and it is kind of beating a point into the ...

13 response(s), 13 votes
goodstuff1954 65 C
7  questions
whats a hippy? - 7/13/2021

true i grew up in that time frame but i never meet a hippy or even seen one. saw people drive around with flowers all over their car, van , or bus. was dumb enough to call them a flower but guess what they where still PEOPLE different oppions than mine but they where still human.

9 response(s), 13 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
men & drama too on AdultFriendFinder>its not only us women!!! - 7/13/2021

I recently met a man in my network, qwho lives in georgia . im not sure if he thought he met a fool, but after we spend time together. and he was great to, my bed hasnt gotten that wet in awhile. the next day, he tells me the wife whos hes supposed to be seperated from.that he sent her his house note money, & she bought new furniture. he has his 1& 3 year old , with him i already had ...

6 response(s), 13 votes
rm_kayak1994 43 M
0  questions
is it true that most females fantasize about being ? - 7/13/2021

a female told me the other day that she often fantasizes about being . not actually assaulted or hurt physically but in the sense where she is forced into sex with somebody such as her mailman or co-worker. she says alot of females think of this. is this true?

22 response(s), 24 votes
themisskrissy 57 F
52  questions
PMS - Persecute Member Syndrome? - 7/13/2021

When will enough be enough? <br> Now before some of you get your knickers in a twist, i will say this... IT IS NOT ABOUT ME... i don't give a damn what people are saying here to me or about me... thier cyber words cannot hurt me.. i choose to not allow it.. most times i find it funny in an Abuse themiss Line twisted sort of way and i pity those that do it.. <br> I see ...

26 response(s), 21 votes
Does it Matter?.. - 7/13/2021

Hi, just a question for ladies (or maybe guys if they have an oppinion). <br> When I was born I had something wrong with one of my testicles and it had to be removed, so now I only have one. Im told that it shouldnt matter and that I should be able to have and everything, but Im wondering if that would be a turn-off, ony having one instead of two?.. <br> All feedback ...

10 response(s), 5 votes
rm_MamCsDawne 48 F
3  questions
Babies??? - 7/13/2021

Ok ppl im 35 yrs old.. am i too old to have a baby now.. my other are already in middle school and high school.. wow.. never thought id have to think about such things.. But hey..I guess mentally im more prepared now than i have ever been but who is ever financially prepared for a lil one.. get back with me.. i wanna hear what you all have to say.. Am i just too old for another baby ...

31 response(s), 11 votes
? - 7/13/2021

I have heard males say that they have went to get an erotic Massage by a professional massuse and that the Massage was completed by a hand job. Does anyone know if this is a common occurance with getting an ? Has this happened to anyone out there? And for any couples out there would a hand job with release, by a massuse be considered cheating if nothing else occured?

12 response(s), 27 votes
IamOmeed 43 M
10  questions
Teenage Drugs Sex and Alcohol - 7/13/2021

So I have a question that is semi off topic. My little sister is 14 y/o im 24, so i kinda feel like a dad to her. I never got the sex talk from my parents, so i know she hasnt. She's has a preppy attitude and hangs around with a bunch of skater guys and shes cute. I know all do this at one point or another but i know shes been exposed to drugs sex and alcohol. <br> But i ...

8 response(s), 7 votes
Why do the men talk to the ladies like they are hookers? - 7/13/2021

For some reason when a man talks to a lady on the internet. He tends to refer to her as slut, bitch, when he should be refering to her by her name or by her handle. <br> Men can be so rude and they don't seem to even know it. The first thing they say about a lady when they meet her is, "Nice tits" or "Nice Ass". What about her eyes, her lips, her hair? <br> Men need to ...

8 response(s), 4 votes