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Posted:Sep 8, 2017 9:37 pm
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(2017)
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Chat and pic sharing...
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Posted:Apr 15, 2018 3:49 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2018 10:54 am 1000 Views
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One thing that is really easy to find is sex chat or sexting, 'pic sharing', whatever you want to call but it's basically online nsa play with (usually) someone basically 'anonymous'. Unless you have met and dated or had sex, but it's still easier to find a guy looking for online play rather than real life. (yep I know from experience, I also know where to find it). 😁
Anyway let's just say that my sex chat skillz are not 1 800 worthy. 😁😅
Even with my past lovers and partners I would still prefer to just meet in real life and do those things that he wants to sext about. 😏
Ya ya I get sometimes phone sex is hot and especially with someone anonymous, custom porn for free! (yep . these guys are everywhere on the dating sites). Plenty of photo collectors out there also. 😒
So when it comes to men on dating sites demanding nude photos or sext chat before meeting (or even with the first few dates) I just ignore amd move on. Like I said there are sex sites to easily find a guy looking for online play, why use a dating site. AND yes there are plenty of women that enjoy the online play also, but I search for men not women.
And then,
So when the convo turns to sexual interests there can be a fine line between having an adult discussion and him fishing for sex chat. lol. Yes experience with this, and I bet I am not alone with this. Pretty much 4 out of 5 guys that I have chatted with in the last 8 yrs wanted online play and to not meet, or they would meet once then promise to meet again.. 😁
Back to sex chat, the long way around, I am far more hands on and visual rather than pretend I am putting whatever in whatnot hole and fake moaning it. lol!
Although I did humour my established partners with sexting, but it was not my preferred method of interaction. 😁
Netflix even did a show on 'addicted to sexting', and the shallow validation you receive from it. As long as both parties agree to it then have fun, but I will still prefer the hands on method (even if you are in camp).
Yes I Understand that some flirting has its place when meeting someone new, but can you just try to get to know the person before asking for sex chat. Lol.
I won't ask how many are into sexting because your inbox would explode with men looking for free custom porn. But some days it saddens me that he would rather play online rather than meet, but also experience shows that there is a good chance he is not as single as he claims.... lol!
Anyway sexy bloggers,
How often do you get hit up for sex chat on dating sites?
Or fish for sex chat or "pic sharing" on a dating site?
(Obviously not written for this site as I and referring to actual dating sites) 
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Sinday coffee
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Posted:Apr 15, 2018 10:41 am
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2018 1:09 pm 1011 Views
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Well sexy bloggers it's another day to mark the end of a long week.
Today I'm working just below the snow line in the mountains so it has that crisp feel in the air but I can see the spring green in the valley bottom.
I was hoping to enjoy my sinday with a nice dark coffee, bacon and hash browns, instead it was a thin coffee (pops can't drink the strong coffee, and I stopped at the ranch house for a morning hello) and a quick switch of vehicles to take the silverado to town today.
(Found this sexy profile on the kink site, he has many great photos)
But now as I'm hanging out on the hillside, there is sunshine but it's trying to rain now.... geesh.
I have been mulling over my ongoing issue of trying to figure man out. 
You offer sex they say no.
You with hold sex they complain.
You say you will try most anything they cringe.
You say you only want X instead of A-zz then they ask why you don't want A B C Ff.... lol
You say no strings attached and get treated poorly.
You say relationship and it can be years before you see a date.
You say I'm thin, they say not thin enough.
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Well it's been a very long time since I have had morning coffee with a man.
Sexy bloggers may as well start somewhere,
SO how do you like your coffee/tea/water/drink on a sinday morning?
Favorite weekend brunch or breakfast?
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Endless Friday. ..
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Posted:Apr 13, 2018 7:08 pm
Last Updated:Apr 15, 2018 10:25 am 1328 Views
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Finally Friday in the badlands!
It was one of those weeks that just wouldn't end fast enough. 
I quite enjoy my job and I like working but I have a tonne of stuff to do at home right now. .... plus I need time still to get over my libido. Lol.
It's trying to rear it's ugly head again, haunting most every other thought and creating a longing that I don't need right now.
Having to settle for finding a relationship is kinda making me a little depressed knowing that monogamy equals limited sex ...but at least he may put effort into it, well far more what a hookup guy will do.
How do you get over that "limited" feeling of having monogamous sex?
I already know that you aren't supposed to ask for more than what he can offer when it comes to sex, intimacy, and everything else that comes with it.
How many older men are still into having sex within a relationship...
It's weird because I searched for near 10 years for someone open to sexploring but have come up empty, which now only leaves monogamy. Lol
Ya....I'm glad it's Friday and I'm in the middle of nowhere,.
It's depressing being on the dating site ........
Where are those unicorns that a fun and still looking for great sex? For trying new things? For believing in trust...
I definitely starting to believe that it's like winning the powerball to find a man that enjoys sex. Lol!!!!!
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Tues I think.
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Posted:Apr 10, 2018 2:54 pm
Last Updated:Apr 13, 2018 1:04 pm 2128 Views
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....actually the married one is the one that bites because according to most attached men on dating sites and the divorced guys...the wife rarely gave bjs something like two times a year - on his bday and again on steak n bj day! 
Enjoy the day.
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Mutual pleasure = ?
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Posted:Apr 9, 2018 4:52 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2018 1:15 pm 2548 Views
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Sexy bloggers....dating sites can be exasperating to say the least. 
How come when I describe my fantasies, desires, wishes n wants when it comes to sex means I'm looking for a cuckold?? Meaning a guys pleasure isn't important to me. Especially when my goal with sex is mutual pleasure first and foremost.
When I mention that I have desires that take a trusted partner means that I want a cuck. When I mention how important my pleasure is (considering I have met far more penis centered men) and how I want a partner that is willing or at least understands what a high libido is........
Plus many of my kinks revolving around his pleasure like cock worship and long slow bjs, or P massage.. . Well Any of his kinks that do not include more women.(and if fmf/ffm is his main kink then we are mismatched anyway. Lol.)
So sexy bloggers,
When a woman describes how she likes sex do you automatically whip out the words "femanazi" or "cuckold" or "selfish"...??
(unless it's purely selfish but really most guys think sex is only for thier orgasm hence casual sex is about getting him off).
Do you avoid women that know what it takes for mutual pleasure, or she at least knows how to make herself orgasm?
Is mutual pleasure such a bad thing???
What are your thoughts on mutual pleasure/slow sex/tantric/anything but a quickie? (Men I'm interested in your view for sure)
When does it come into play when you say you like a woman that is confident with sex? Does it only count when she is describing your orgasm only?
How do you (male readers) want her to tell you how she enjoys sex?
Considering many guys claim they like it when a woman 'takes control' or that she knows what she desires... right now I think you are just saying that so you will get women to bang you.
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Sinday coffee n a haunted beaver 👻
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Posted:Apr 8, 2018 10:37 am
Last Updated:Apr 20, 2018 7:35 am 2691 Views
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Well well sexy bloggers it's sinday again!
One thing that is nice about living in the semi-remote country,
I can masturbate in the pale moon light outside.
Ya ok, so little perverted but I like outdoor play. It gets my juices flowing, both mind n body. Lol
Haunted beaver
It's been so busy here that I have been just too tired to rub one out, plus my jedi mind control about controlling my libido yada yada yada....
That darn little beaver still reminds me that it is there, causing a few creaks n groans in my imagination, beggin for a petting.
Haunts my dreams and pulls past lovers into its sleepy embrace only to turn up the heat and make the bed swim in a puddle of lust driven ..... ghosts
Either way sexy bloggers,
as much as I try and turn down my libido it is still there, teasing at my thoughts, captivating my dreams with the touch of a lover. .. where you want to feel his hand you see it there you see him touching and tasting but you are waiting to FEEL it!
I wake up longing for that touch, to feel my wet, to caress my mind
But -> that little beaver has a faux hawk now!
Needs a trim amd a massage.
Sexy bloggers on a sinday,
What tantalizing dream haunts your nights}/size]? 
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Haha! Thanks!
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Posted:Apr 6, 2018 7:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 8, 2018 10:18 am 3201 Views
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You know who you are!
Ya ok.... sums up my dating...lol... I get it.
Happy Friday sexy bloggers!
It's trying to be spring here but we are having intermittent snow/rain with a spackle of sunshine and overcast.
Mid April I will have settled in the new (old) place, then time to get cracken on finding a venue to host kink events. Lol
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