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Are you STR8 and yet get requests from T-girls and gays?
Posted:Sep 18, 2018 1:59 pm
Last Updated:Apr 16, 2024 7:26 am
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Why do they bother you if your profile says STRAIGHT?
Is there any nice way to blow them off?
Do you generally block them?
Does it really PISS you off?

Respond to this question here. Thanks
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If you do swallow...
Posted:Sep 14, 2015 6:34 pm
Last Updated:Mar 18, 2016 6:00 am
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Not every lady/slut/woman swallows and that's OK by me that's for sure. However, it does make everything less messy especially if in a public place on in a car riding down the highway. LOL

Question: Is it true that fruits like pineapple and grapes and strawberries versus cauliflower, broccoli and kale actually give sperm (cum) a sweeter, more flavorful taste. I am curious and have only read articles and my sex partners thus far have given varied answers.

Not ever planning to find out for myself, I must trust you ladies to give an honest, candid answer.

Thanks for you honest answers!
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The Notorious Fakes on AdultFriendFinder
Posted:Dec 12, 2009 12:43 pm
Last Updated:Mar 7, 2014 7:53 am
10321 Views
Well, well, well am I the only member here who is tired of the fake profiles?
I have discovered that there are so many immature men here that think we members are just stupid and cannot figure out when there is a fake profile.
Generally, here are a few guidelines to follow to keep from propagating this continued abuse here.

1) There is usually a single photo of a young woman 18-35 years old sprawled out showing her entire genitalia. So how many people are going to do this?

2) Whenever a profile has two short sentences saying "I'm horny" or "I just want to fuck myself to death" or "I cannot help being horny all day long", these are dead clues that the profile is indeed fake.

3) When all of the profile questions contain "Prefer Not To Say". The faker does not want to take the time to complete the profile so he gives himself away.

4) When the profile has something like "HorneyBabe69" and a reference to "AdultFriendFinder Who dot com." Give me a break. So many members add these Testimonials to their page What a joke.

Would you other members also add some things you have discovered that the fakes also do here that ruins the site for others. Sure wish there was a way to "ZAP" them? I frequently send the fake a message calling them a "FAKE!" and guess what...the profile is removed within 24 hours.

Thanks for your comments and Have lots of fun but remember to play safe.
{=}

Gordy
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Visiting Hilton Head / Savannah GA / Beaufort SC ?
Posted:Nov 6, 2009 9:12 pm
Last Updated:Mar 24, 2013 9:45 am
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Everybody thinks that they live in "God's Country" but I truly live there.
My backyard is 100% nature with deer, turkey, raccoon, possum and even pleated woodpecker. "Pecker" ??? Well, you know there are many varieties.
I moved here 8+ years ago (wow, that many?) and have never had a regret. Wonderful neighbors (but no swingers) . However, there is plenty of space here for you swingers!
Let me know when you are visiting the area and I will make sure we have an opportunity to meet. No obligations anticipated but at least you will have a "guide" or someone who can help you find things in this area.
Paula Deans is just a short drive. The white sandy beaches beckon you. The scenic and historic Beaufort awaits.
Bored or up for some "playtime"? I'll do my best to accommodate each and every one of you. Life is far too short to "miss out" on some adult fun.
Just email me here when you have made your travel plans. I'll do my best to help you have a more enjoyable trip.
One local rule is that we practice .
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Instructions on how member may GIFT other members with KUDOS
Posted:Jun 10, 2009 4:37 pm
Last Updated:Dec 2, 2010 6:22 pm
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If you would you care to send me or another Adult Friend Finder member some KUDOS, I will walk you through that process.

1) At the top of my profile (or any member you wish to gift kudos) look for the word KUDOS
2) 'Click' on the words Give KUDOS
3) You will be taken to a page where you may gift up to 20 KUDOS (per 30 day period) but only 5 (1 thru 5 points) per category
4) The highest valued KUDOS are for CHAT / GROUPS / BLOG
5) Remember you may gift from 1 to 20 KUDOS per 30 days
6) Generally, the member will return some or ALL of those KUDOS back to you
The more KUDOS you give and receive from members each month the more AdultFriendFinder will allocate you the next month. Eventually, you will become in the Top 20 in KUDOS should that mean anything to you.

I hope this helps any/all members to become more interactive on this site. Also, it will promote your profile so many additional members will see it and your chances of meeting other parties will certainly increase. I have personal experience that this will occur.

Now go have some fun here and quit "flipping" through profile photos.
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How to Accept "Gifted" Bling and add to your profile.
Posted:Jun 10, 2009 4:30 pm
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2013 5:56 am
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Hello both new and old Adult Friend Finder members.
Many of you have been given "Bling" but have not accepted them for some reason or another. To help everybody I have listed the easy steps below.

Here are the instructions how to get the "bling". Go to any page where you see the word "bling" in blue.
I'll give you an example
1) Go to your homepage
2) Look for "Who's Viewed Me?"
3) Just under this is the word "bling" with a blue number beside it
4) 'Click' on the blue number
5) Next you will see a page with all of the "bling" that have been gifted to you
6) Just 'click' on the word ACCEPT for each "bling" you wish to accept
7) Next 'click' on each "bling" once again with TAKE
That's it and congratulations you have done it!

I hope this helps any/all members to become more interactive on this site. Also, it will promote your profile so many additional members will see it and your chances of meeting other parties will certainly increase. I have personal experience that this will occur.

Now go have some fun here and quit "flipping" through profile photos.

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Get It On
Posted:Jun 8, 2009 11:10 am
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2015 9:53 am
8248 Views

Just wondering how many AFF members have taken advantage of the 6 months free on affiliated site "Get It On"?
I am sitting back on this one for awhile myself.
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What is the greatest number of playmates you have had at a single meeting counting both males and fe
Posted:Oct 21, 2008 11:12 am
Last Updated:Sep 14, 2015 6:36 pm
10232 Views

Different strokes for different folks.
I am just curious how many members are into multiple sex partners and their preferences when playing together.

Remember folks, Play Safe.
I/We have only "played" with a single individual of the opposite sex.
I/We have only "played" with a single individual of the same sex.
I/We have only "played" with a couple (male and female).
I/We have "played" with a several individuals of the opposite sex and I was the only one of my sex.
I/We have "played" with multiple individuals of the same sex.
I/We only "play" with my spouse/mate.
I/We just enjoy masturbating.
I/We have participated in a "gang bang".
I/We have played with multiple couples.
I/We have played in a hot tub with multiple people all enjoying each other.
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"A Few Extra Pounds vs Ample"
Posted:Oct 9, 2008 6:59 am
Last Updated:Dec 7, 2009 9:41 pm
10037 Views

I am still trying to figure this one out.
I see members who look 50-75 pounds overweight who describe in their profile "A Few Extra Pounds".
Maybe I am confused but Webster defines "few" as " a small number". Does 50-75 pounds constitute "few"?
Weight is not really a factor with me when looking for playmates but I begin to wonder where else has this individual(s) exaggerated?
Your thoughts?
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Rude Members
Posted:Sep 25, 2008 7:20 am
Last Updated:Jul 28, 2009 8:54 pm
8908 Views

When a member sends me an email no matter how curt or uninteresting, I always answer that email. In the past month I have received over 800 emails from members. Guess what...I have responded to all of them including those from 'spammers' located in other countries. This is called courtesy.
On the other hand, I have sent both "blings" and emails to active members here and about 25-30% never say "thanks" or "drop dead". This is called rude or discourteous.
Hey, I'm a nice, decent man and my emails only notify the member that I have sent them complementary "blings". An acknowledgment is so easy to do.
Let's all try to be better members here and use our manners.
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Nigeria//Australia//Europe//Philippines women hitting on US guys
Posted:Sep 25, 2008 12:19 am
Last Updated:Sep 15, 2015 9:53 am
8593 Views

You see, it all works out evenly.
You ladies complain (bitch) about the rude guys sending "one liners" that are crude but you should experience what we more experienced (older) guys get pounded with daily.
I receive at least 4 or 5 "hits" daily from "standard" females located in Nigeria, Romania, Bulgaria, Philippines and "Australia" plus other countries who "kiss" or "hug" (flirts) me.
The standard line is "I am a single, loving, lonely woman looking for an honest, caring, loving man to take care of me.
She will usually be between 21-29 years old. Many times she will even use an American city as her "home".
I don't know about the other guys but I immediately report them to admin for abuse then go to the profile and "block" further contacts. Most often they even have an email address written in their profile.
Unfortunately, A>F>F/Passion has no way to block these "spammers".
Therefore, I can be sympathetic with you couples/ladies who get numerous "one-line hits" from the desperate guys here.
Maybe we can all team up to battle these pests.

Any comments?
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Posted:Sep 24, 2008 12:12 pm
Last Updated:Dec 5, 2009 8:38 pm
8627 Views

Hello one and all. 9-24-2008
I am probably better at making those 'cute litte icons' than I am at writing a blog.
However, here it is.

I started making "blings" in August, 2008. After 6 or 7 weeks, I have gotten better quality but still have a long way to go to reach perfection. My expertise probably lies in the unique short sayings/comments for each "bling". Being a light-harted, part-time comedian (sure!), I can easily come up with those short one-liners.

For all of my 'fans' (or blackmailed friends) that have given me kudos and written "Thank You" notes - one
BIG THANKS ! There are some really nice and generous playmates here (and a whole bunch of fakes!).

Now down to business. I am a guy. I am missing certain genes in my chromosomes. I know this because I was married for 24 years and daily reminded of my shortcummings. Whipped...I accept that fact. One of those shortcummings is that I am AADD/forgetful/distracted or whatever. Many of you have requested that I make you 'special request' "blings". Being a "dutiful host" according to 'Passion', yes, I will TRY to make the "blings". I do not have any software to assist me like many other "bling-makers". Therefore, I cannot make face or body "blings". Also, I am an accountant by trade and everyone knows that accountants can only do numbers (and do sex by the numbers too). That means my artistic abilities are up there with a one-yr old .
With that in mind K>I>S>S. I can somewhat duplicate simple designs and may eventually do some football/hockey/basketball logos. It takes a lot of time to make these especially for a "bean counter".

Here is the "deal". Leave your requests for special "blings" here. Give me a week to prepare it. After 7 days if you don't have your "bling", send me a courteous "reminder" by Passion email. That 'gene' will be triggered and I will say "Oh, shit, that's right...I forgot about that "bling". If after 2 weeks you still don't have your "bling" send me a 2nd email. This one may be RUDE. If after 3 weeks you still don't have your "bling" call 911 and report a suicide.
I will do my best to accommodate each request. Please remember I am NOT gifted and I will do the best that I can do. [bling 56943]

OK, now I will shut up and leave the rest to "you people" - LOL.

Everyone please Gordy
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