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Lust for another. We can't help it ! Is it an exuse?
Posted:Jul 22, 2018 1:46 pm
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2018 10:4 am
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I'm attracted to WOMEN ( yeah, my profile might confuse SOME people about that ) So let's get this out of the way.________ okay! Look at my blog without some preconceived thoughts.

At my place of work, almost 2 years ago now, a female associate left the dept. we both worked in. It was a surprise to me that she left, so unannounced. and unprofessional like. When I found out she left, I though it had nothing to do with ME ( I never hit on her, nor pursued her in any way ( I didn't even ask for her phone number, nor did I EVER say anything like, " you look nice today!)" I don't even know where she lives. I was her co-worker and nothing more .

I respected her and liked her because she knew her job, and did the right thing with it! Yet I found out that the reason for me on the brinks of possibly loosing my job was because she felt uncomfortable abut the way I "looked" at her !!!! ?????

She's a woman. I'm a man! Of course I'm going to look at her! Especially since I'm a heterosexual guy, and she's a physically attractive woman. Btw, I've seen her look at me! Did I make any big deal about it ! Of course not! But for Her, Still, i MUST have looked at her, in a way, that she felt uncomfortable with! Did she STILL not know me, after all these years?

The truth came out. A small thing was make into a big thing, and in the end, my good name was given back to me.

She's married; simple as that, for me! Also, I'm not interested in HER! We were co-worker friends, and friends ONLY, in MY eyes! Just because I look at her, doesn't mean I "want her!"

I've gone past this mostly, even though it still hurts that others might believe in other nonsense STILL ! It still effects me. But I know who I am, and by the way, I'm still employed there too, even after they tried hard to get me fired!

I want to add some Biblical chapters and such to my feelings about this, but I'm not sure if I can here. I'm trying to find answers to my situation, and found some answers. I'm not sure if others care to hear what i found.

Do women think that ALL single men in my age group are full of lust and without control ! ??? I guess SOME guys are, but... why do women stereotype men! !!!!

I didn't judge my friends at that time, while they were judging me, based only about one person's actions and lies Yet they still can't apologize to ME, for judging ME wrongly! I guess their false friendship for another, means more to them.

So, I've moved on (again mostly) I've lost a friend or two. But it still hurts when even friends, or so called friends believe in lies, when the truth is right in front of their faces!

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Super Bowl, or sex
Posted:Jan 27, 2018 12:51 pm
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2018 1:27 pm
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Which is more important, on that day, and DURING the game time!

BTW, don't you think the Cleveland Browns should have some kind of image on their helmets !

Or maybe others are thinking about sex, and not interested ? I guess sex an food might be satisfying too ! ?


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Frozen Water pipes
Posted:Jan 13, 2018 11:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 18, 2018 3:03 pm
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Last weekend, my water pipes froze. The temp outside was basically Zero F. From years gone by, I anticipated such issues. This year, before the winter, I had some wildlife critters under my mobile home, doing damage to the insulation there. I should have fixed this before the winter.

Anyway, I WAS preparing to add some insulation, and bought some! Last Tuesday, on my lunch hour, from work, I bought some pipe insulation. When I got home, I heard and saw water flow!!!! To Late NOW !

I crawled under my home and got wet, to shut off the main. I called out to work, for the next day, and then started to call nearby plumbers.

Wed., a plumber came, and 4 hours later, and $900.00 later, it was fixed.
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What I learned, was a LOT! 1: Prepare for the winter! 2: Fix things! 3: Look for unseen circumstances, and do something, before it becomes a problem. I should have checked my heat tape, as THAT was a problem too! (It got wet, and thus did not work). I learned much more.

If it gets THAT cold, let your faucets trickle, (not flow), so the water continues to move, and does not freeze entirely !

Open cabinet doors, to allow heat to reach pipes!

In mobile (manufactured) homes, the space in between the floor and the insulation barrier needs heat too! The heat ducts emit heat in this area, and allows for some heat to keep the pipes, also in this space, from freezing!

So unlike houses, DON'T wrap your heat ducts with insulation, thinking you'll save energy. In mobile homes, you WILL save energy, but your pipes will freeze, and cost you more!


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Humanity restored here !
Posted:Dec 12, 2017 6:28 pm
Last Updated:Jun 16, 2018 1:21 pm
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I recently saw something that reminded me that people today give, and care more than themselves. It was a guy at the end of the street. He was playing a guitar, and singing. He had a sign next to him that read, 2 years sober. Motorist nearby, when safe to do so, got out, to give him some money . From my point of view, I gave a thumbs up.

I wanted to stop too, but.... traffic, horns, etc... I understand that too. I just was glad that I, at least, got to see some random act of kindness.
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What would YOU do ?
Posted:Sep 9, 2017 7:50 am
Last Updated:Dec 24, 2017 4:46 am
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You are at a bar, or club, or event with friends. A hot, sexy man approaches. He hits on one of your friends. Your friend likes him, but your friend is reserved. So he hits on YOU instead! He invites YOU to his place. You're hot for him too.

What do you do?
Say no. Your friendship means more.
Say no, even though you want to say yes.
Take a moment to think about it.
You value your friendship, but he's Hot!
You're hot. He's hot. To good of an opportunty to pass up!
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Riding someting ELSE !
Posted:Aug 5, 2017 10:50 am
Last Updated:Mar 16, 2018 4:34 pm
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I got my motorcycle license in 2007, after attending a M/C course. Prior to obtaining the license, I bought a Honda Reflex 250cc. It's an automatic - no shifting required.

I learned a lot from the course I went to, but instead of upgrading, I stayed with the bike I bought, and still have it this day. I enjoy not having to shift ! In fact, I want to upgrade to the 650 cc Honda.

To some, my bike may not be a "real" bike! I get that. I can relate these things, when guys talk about me too. I'm not a "girl." I'm a guy that likes to wear girls clothes.

Anyone want to take a chance and enjoy a nice ride?

Any thoughts?
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Lingerie for Men ! ?
Posted:Jul 23, 2017 1:04 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2018 2:11 pm
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I've been wearing women's undergarments since I was very young. I know I shouldn't, but I do, thus do it discreetly. I like feeling the satiny fabrics on my skin and how it makes me feel. Why are only women allowed to have these things !!!

I'm not Gay though I am BI. I understand why most women don't like men wearing such things, but are there women out there that WOULD want a man that had this desire?

Men - would you like to be with a guy that discreetly enjoys feminine things to wear?
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Vegetable Garden Rememberance
Posted:Jun 24, 2017 7:40 am
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2017 3:12 pm
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Hi. I was recently looking at something on the internet, not long ago, about growing vegetable gardens, and the how too's of such, and when to harvest, and what to do about the scraps. ( Is this a boring topic ? I'm sorry. It was REALLY interesting for me ) ! I wished I saved where I found that information!

Anyway, What some people said on that video, made me think about my youth, and being with my Grandfather.

When I was young, my family always had a garden, after we moved to a sub urban town. Every year, we planted potato's, carrots, [ beets-(yuck) ] !... pees, onions, parsnips, peppers, kale, squashes, and even strawberries! We had a garden, somewhat because of what my grandfather did, when he grew up, and passed that good thing on to our family. It was hard work, weeding, and other things, but it was worth it, in MANY ways.

Sorry for going off from the main topic a bit. In this video I watched, when they harvested, I noticed that their machinery and people couldn't get everything! The people in the video didn't seem bothered by that.

I first thought, ""What a waste of food!" Then I remembered my grandfather doing something similar, in his own garden. He was picking and weeding young food stuffs, and throwing some over his shoulder. I said to him, "Why throw those away, when there are so many poor that need food !" He looked at me and smiled, and said something like, "Then let the poor come and get them!"

I didn't understand, at the time.

My grandfather was born in 1919, grew up in a different time, and understood things differently than today about many things, including caring for the poor (my grandfather was not poor, but in the 1930's and during WW11, he learned much! I eventually understood that it was okay to do what he did, because he was, in essence, feeding the poor.

Today, I wish I had a garden of my own.
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Heaven and Hell Do you believe ?
Posted:May 20, 2017 3:15 pm
Last Updated:Dec 28, 2017 3:10 pm
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I've been thinking about this a lot. What is the purpose of life ? Why does MY life matter ? When I die, where do I go ? I have my beliefs that life, and the individual DOES matter, and where I go when I die. I know others believe in other things. So I ask....

Do you believe in Heaven AND hell, or... Heaven, but NOT Hell ? Do you believe in an afterlife, or does life not matter?
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Dreams. Literally !
Posted:Apr 29, 2017 9:49 am
Last Updated:Sep 16, 2017 10:35 am
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Having Dreams, meaning while asleep!

I stumbled across a video on youtube titled, 12 Common Dreams Explained. As I watched, I thought about some dreams I have, and how this video explains reasons why people dream such dreams. Some of it makes sense.

For me, I have 3 of the common dreams that this video gave. 1: Being followed(unwanted). 2: Flying. 3: Being naked.

I'm often being chased in my dreams, and can't seem to get away from those chasing me, but am able to be just ahead of them.

I fly in my dreams, like a bird, under my own power, except I'm not flapping my arms. It's almost like soaring. As long as I look up, I can keep soaring. Once I look down, I lose altitude.

Also, I have dreams about being naked, mostly with women. Unfortunately, in those dreams, others seem to be always around us, and all I want to do is be alone with that women, so we can touch each other and have sex.

What do you think these dreams mean? Also, What does everyone else dream about, and do you wonder why you dream such dreams ! ?
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Sometimes you have to say no, to enjoy more !
Posted:Apr 15, 2017 7:07 am
Last Updated:May 2, 2018 2:46 pm
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I love intimacy and sex! Most of us do! But sometimes too much sex, or too much of the same thing, all the time, can become boring, and a turn off, right !

Sometimes taking time off from sex, cam ignite old passions, and sometimes new ones too !

Sometimes, one person has to say no to sex, so the next time they do have sex, it will be more intense ! ...\8

I hope I used these smiley faces, and bling, so that I get my meaning across !

What do you think ?
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Sex in an open public place!
Posted:Apr 15, 2017 6:36 am
Last Updated:Aug 1, 2017 5:02 pm
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Who has done this ? Did any body see it , or did you get away with it ? Really !

Who WANTS, or fantasizes about this happening to them !

Okay, let me share one experience I had... I was 33, and was dating this woman. After eating out, we were walking around this beach and talking. We eventually needed to pee. We walked up to the establishments, but signs told us bathrooms could only be use for patrons. We went back to the beach, and well.... she lowered her pants under a dock and actually peed ! She smiled at me, so I did it too! The next thing was she and I had sex there. We didn't get caught, but it was a great date !

Also, nothing like this every happened with me since.

Anyone else wish to share ! ?
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Where would you love to have sex, but never have !
Posted:Apr 11, 2017 5:46 pm
Last Updated:Oct 28, 2017 7:11 am
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Most of us have fantasies. I'm guessing most of us may not have fulfilled them either! So the question is WHERE would you love to have sex !
A car, train, bus, or airplane
In a parents, or siblings bedroom
In a pool, gym, or spa
at a frat house, or roommate situation
A beach, resort, or outdoors
a night club or bar
at work
A combination of these
Other
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