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Making fun of myself
Posted:Oct 14, 2018 4:29 pm
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2018 4:40 am
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Not that the targeted audience will read this, but ...
Posted:Oct 14, 2018 5:11 am
Last Updated:Oct 15, 2018 1:33 am
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As usual, standard members who can't see profiles are the people who should be reading this Intro to Me, but probably won't. Ditto on the Gold members who can read this but choose to ignore, it ... lol. Lastly, because I'm not quite ready to start my Sunday quite yet with the usually errands, chores and whatnot (besides, it's chilly out there ... only 37 deg as I write this ... brrrrrrrr).

INTRO
"Hookup, Find Sex or Meet Someone Hot Now"- AdultFriendFinder's tagline, not mine.

I'm as much interested in what's in your brain as what is protruding from your groin. Looking for the right combination of personality, intelligence, sexiness, humor, physique and humility. In other words, the Unicorn.

If you must know, I tend to be attracted to men who are taller than me-5'8-1/2"-HWP and have dark hair. Bonus hottie points for a goatee. These are not tiebreakers, just generalities. 45-60 is a great age range for chatting, possibly more. I prefer not to get involved with men my age or older - they remind me how old I am (lol) and usually look like they could be MY father. Oh yeah, and I'm really attracted to men who try to 'debate' me into meeting them ... NOT. That will get you blocked sooner than later, as will stalking my profile. That's just beyond my 'creepy' level.

For those who give a rat's ass, I'm basically an INTP personality (Introverted Intuitive Thinking Perceiver). I'm also a LEO, which seems a contradiction to the INTP personality ... go figure.

Just looking for a few chat friends, or maybe one special friend, so don't get needy. As a general rule, DON'T hit me up for chats if you're working on your morning or midnight-hour wood.

If I don't respond to your IM on your first (or 2nd or 3rd) try, it might be the fault of this site. If I don't respond to your continual IMs, it means I'm not interested. Take the hint and move on please...I'm really not into you.

If you ask me for a pic in chat, you need to be willing to share one first. I'm not interested in seeing your dick pics, most of them are pretty damn ugly, and no, I don't have naked pics to share, so you guessed it ... face pics only.

THE END

Happy Sunday!
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Innie, outtie, or middle of the road ?
Posted:Oct 12, 2018 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2018 11:37 am
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Extroverts tend to be outgoing and bold. They gravitate toward roles that put them in the center of attention. Introverts tend to be quiet and deliberative. They prefer one-on-one meetings, working on their own, and long walks on the beach (just kidding). Ambiverts fall in the middle of the spectrum, and they're equally comfortable in leadership and supporting roles, and they tend to adapt to fill voids in their teams.

Which type makes the most effective leader? Introverts and extroverts are equally effective, although with different kinds of teams. If you’re an extrovert, you have an edge in leading teams where people want direction from above; thanks to your gregariousness, you can engage with and motivate a wide range of colleagues. If you’re an introvert, your advantage is in leading proactive teams; your penchant for listening means you hear more ideas and leave colleagues feeling more valued.

So is it better to be on Team Extrovert or Team Introvert? Neither. If your team is dominated by extroverts, you can run into conflict about who’s in charge; if the team is full of introverts, you may end up with too little communication. Teams with a mix of extroverts and introverts tend to be more productive than teams made up mostly of one of those types -- they have a better mix of task focus and social cohesion.

Where do ambiverts shine? It turns out that ambiverts often achieve greater sales productivity than extroverts or introverts. Ambiverts are more inclined to listen to customers’ interests and less vulnerable to appearing too excited or overconfident, tendencies that can also make them highly effective in leadership roles. And because ambiverts naturally engage in a flexible pattern of talking and listening, they’re likely to express sufficient assertiveness and enthusiasm needed to close a sale.

But no matter your type, flexibility is a quality we can all embrace. Think of your personality as serving like an anchor -- instead of constraining you, it keeps you from drifting too far as you pursue new possibilities.

~~from Quiz: Are you an extrovert, introvert or ambivert? by Adam Grant, https://ideas.ted.com/quiz-are-you-an-extrovert-introvert-or-ambivert/
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Lame Excuses
Posted:Oct 11, 2018 4:20 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2018 3:00 pm
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It's a shame when people pass up a perfect opportunity to meet someone for a suspiciously lame excuse. I do not want a 'hookup' but I will meet someone as an intro to find out if it's worth moving forward for more ...

Case in point: Date set to meet someone for a drink tomorrow after a business meeting. The urging for a casual meetup was his idea all along, just to 'get to know each other.' Reminders by text, from him, for several weeks of the 'big day.'

He texts me today ... 'you know what tomorrow is' ...

I accidentally left my phone at home today, but responded tonight after work... and then he says ... 'slight dilemma...scheduled family get-together conflict...i've known about it but forgot.' Instead, he thought we could squeeze in a drink before he had to rush off to the family thing. **eyeroll**

Really? You are a self-proclaimed 'I've got this covered' kind of guy in business and life, and you 'forgot' a pre-planned family outing that just happens to be the same night as our date? mmhmmm

People, people, people ... are you trying to kid me or are you kidding yourself?

While this may be typical of the dating population, or maybe just typical of this site, it's sad, really sad.

I would say it was a coincidence, but this happens far more frequently to me than I care to admit. When this is the norm for social behavior, it's no wonder so many people are alone and dateless ...
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Does age difference in relationships matter?
Posted:Oct 8, 2018 2:54 pm
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2018 3:30 pm
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In the online article "Mind the gap – does age difference in relationships matter?," author Gery Karantzas posits that "The success of a relationship depends on the extent to which partners share similar values, beliefs and goals about their relationship; support each other in achieving personal goals; foster relationship commitment, trust and intimacy; and resolve problems in constructive ways. These factors have little do with age. So the reality is, while an age gap may bring about some challenges for couples, so long as couples work at their relationship, age should be no barrier."

I have been with men my own age, men who were 7-10 older, and as much as 25 younger at various times in my life. I can honestly say that each age bracket holds its own charm, and its own challenges when it comes to building or maintaining a relationship.

While the obvious school of thought is that physical differences create the most challenge, I would say that emotional and mental differences create as many challenges. For instance, does the SO desire to create a family ... but you are soooooo past that point in your life? Is there a significant difference in income and/or career aspirations? Is the SO able to appreciate and participate in, your 'history' (i.e., does he/she understand your references to your life before you as a couple?), is he/she interested enough to at least have an understanding of life and society beyond their hometown? Etc, etc...

Personally I prefer to date someone who is vital, pertinent and not ready to spend the rest of his life in a recliner. That can be someone older, younger or very close to my own age. He should also understand my occasional anxiety about being branded a 'cougar,' cradle-robber or even gold-digger, because those labels are too stereotypical, limiting, and sometimes derogatory.

Your thoughts?
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Total turnoffs...
Posted:Oct 5, 2018 3:55 am
Last Updated:Oct 6, 2018 12:27 pm
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The things you see, hear or experience that totally turn you off ... what are they?

Here are a few of mine:

1. Profile pics of naked men wearing their socks (c'mon dude, really?)

2. Profile pics of naked men standing next to a toilet wearing their socks (you are forever banned from my list of men with potential, lol)

3. Vids of BJs where the woman is constantly looking at the camera (sweetie, that does NOT add to the sexiness of the whole thing)

4. Naked men with big bellies (no need to say more)

'Attractiveness' is very subjective, as we all know. I'm not perfect, and I'm here to admit it, but this is just my very personal list of turn offs on a random Friday morning...

What are yours??
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Not Interested
Posted:Oct 2, 2018 4:39 am
Last Updated:Oct 8, 2018 3:01 pm
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We all get messages from people on here who want to meet, chat, hookup, whatever . . . some polite, some uninspired, some crude. There are people we would like to follow up with, and then there are those we don't want to follow up with.

If someone sends me an IM and I don't want to chat, I 'dismiss' and that's that. As my profile states, one ignored IM and it might be the fault of this site; multiple ignored IMs, and dude, please take a hint! I'm just not into you!

Same things with email ...

While I'm of the opinion that responding to unwanted messages only encourages the nut jobs to become stalkers, it would be handy to have a polite but crystal clear "no thanks" message as a backup.

I'd like to know what responses the rest of you use ... Care to share?
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In case you wanted to know
Posted:Sep 29, 2018 1:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 14, 2018 4:31 am
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I do some random stuff when I wake up at 2:40 a.m. on a Saturday morning. For instance, I was surfin' blogs and decided to look at the Top Keywords list as compiled by AdultFriendFinder. Now in case you hadn't already noticed, this list is NOT in alpha order. Being the wide-awake nerd that I am, I decided to make a list of my own ... the alphabetized list of AdultFriendFinder's Top Keywords (of course I did.) Interestingly enough, AdultFriendFinder denied my first attempt to post because they banned me from writing two words that were actually in their list (and were clearly in the posts of other bloggers ... hmmm.)

Well I got through Page 17 (of 34 pages) before I decided to stop. Here are the results, in case you wanted to know. You're welcome.

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Exclusive?
Posted:Sep 26, 2018 4:05 am
Last Updated:Oct 2, 2018 5:45 pm
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I just read another member's byline, "Seeking an exclusive FWB".

Hmmm.

While I understand that he is looking for only one person to share intimate moments with, is he being realistic or even rational? If he, she or they are willing to be a FWB, doesn't it sort of automatically imply that they are also willing to be FWB to others? Perhaps simultaneously? How does FWB EVER imply exclusivity?

There's a train of thought that unless you put a ring on it, you have no right to ask for exclusivity. Even with a ring on it, many are not monogamous ( as is the case with a lot of members here and on other sites).

Thoughts?
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