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Ranty rant rant rant!  

SarahLem80 44F
165 posts
6/4/2020 10:11 am
Ranty rant rant rant!


Why do guys send IMs they don’t respond when I reply! It costs valuable points replay IMs. If I reply it’s because I think it’s worth chatting with you and I’m interested!

Clanadonia23 42M  
79 posts
6/4/2020 10:20 am

IM's are rubbish here..


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
6/4/2020 10:23 am

I know, I have wasted points sometime too. Some IM's though have been great. Great conversation with others, it's just once and a while there is a glitch.


3play06 65M/118F
60 posts
6/4/2020 10:33 am

Site just not real user friendly .


Jeremixx28 39M
20 posts
6/4/2020 10:47 am

Hummm you have so beautiful ass if you want you can send to me for sure i answer you😉😉


anchonlust 47M
1301 posts
6/4/2020 11:09 am

I have the same expirience. We can chat and speak about that and better stuff


Uptonogood34655 60M
13 posts
6/4/2020 11:09 am

I often wonder is it AFFs way of getting those points back?
Why IM if you arent going to respond?


1funluvr 61M

6/4/2020 11:12 am

Based on your profile, I'd say they're insane...I'd reply straight away if you were reasonably nearby


Blee761 62M  
519 posts
6/4/2020 11:24 am

I always reply to IMs, unless I have reason to believe the profile is a catphisher.


hardguy0051 72M
503 posts
6/4/2020 11:37 am

When I've tried to reply to an IM, AdultFriendFinder logs me out.

Gotta love the techs at AdultFriendFinder.


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
6/4/2020 11:47 am

Och McLem, I expect that if the guys actually saw that you were messaging they would reply immediately.......but there are historic and significant issues with the IM system here, and so it's more likely that your messages are not getting through at all. It's very frustrating and very dysfunctional. So aye, with a bum like that I'm sure the guys would drop everything to chat with you.

Oh aye, and that arabella personna, it's a troll, please don't waste any energy on getting excited by it, it's simply baiting you........


sportsfans63 60M
46 posts
6/4/2020 11:48 am

I totally agree with you. If you send a IM and then don't reply it is rude.


bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
6/4/2020 12:30 pm

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bbuckwwheat 65M
6265 posts
6/4/2020 12:31 pm

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iampj20 34M

6/4/2020 12:50 pm

i'd reply


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
6/4/2020 2:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Why should women who do not use the im answer? My profile says I do not. Most that send me one do pay so are able to read it. As for standards not my problem they can't read profiles. Also if i was meeting and did use it I wouldn't answer most. The paying members choose to ignore my age range among other things. I will ignore them since can't respect what I do and don't not want.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Attentive14Fun 50M

6/4/2020 11:00 pm

Members have been complaining about it for years. The same old problems over and over and yes the site has been told about it. It's a scam much lime 90% of the profiles on here. That's why it has never been fixed because it's rigged. They do nothing about the fake profiles because most are generated by AdultFriendFinder. The members count would look totally different if it weren't for the fake and abandoned profiles. They can't have that now can they. That's one of the reasons they removed the last login feature for search results so you can't see just how many abandoned profiles they keep on this site just to keep the members numbers up. When members actually do become wise of the scams this site pulls on its members leave and remove their profile they just add more fake generated profiles. This site is plagued with greed you can tell by how hard they are pushing the cam girls now. Can't even do a simple search anymore without them putting cam girls in the mix. These cam girls aren't even members of AdultFriendFinder but they add them in the search results. If you go to ban one it tells you that member doesn't exist. The more people keep giving them money the more they will keep screwing us over. I for one will never give these crooks another dime of my money just to scam me. I've been around this site for over fifteen years and the site becomes even more of a scam year by year. It use to be a good site back in the day but greed has turned it into nothing but a straight up scam site.


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