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Well, welcome to dating world. It's cray cray. That said, I don't that either voice has a monopoly on the truth. It is possible to express both voices to greater and lesser degrees. You have to be careful and selective while also having fun. You can be sexually uninhibited without being a whore. Allow yourself to be pursued because it's fun not because you trying to make point. Being on this site is about curiosity and bucket lists. Some are successful and some are not. There many factors that determine which each person will be but there doesn't seem to any one over-riding factor. You seem to be a great person. Go slow until you get you steady sea legs. Have fun. I wish you good hunting and welcome to the blogs. Let us know how things go. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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There's a book out there entitled " the good girls guide to being bad". My understanding is that it gives you a way to have the best of both! I hope it helps!
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1/22/2019 2:57 pm |
I’d say find middle ground between the two. Find your happiness but feel good about yourself when you do. Best of luck
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I think you could mix some of those Don't get discouraged after a 100 dates with the cray cray semi perfect guys.Prize?Blue ribbon perhaps! You're no mo a hoe than my garden rake is! What would people think? You're a sensible,rugged self determined woman who knows that sex is the most common activity humans can share.If they didn't how else would we have gotten here. Good Luck and be safe! Using more than all the road!
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Hell be what u desire. If that's being a bad girl. Then go for it you only live once.
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after being with the same man for so long I say be careful, stick to your standards, some of us love the wild lifestyle others want the " so call perfect guy". only you know what you want, maybe going on the wild side with limits will help you decide which is for you.
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Hang in there, Sea and Sun. Many of us have been through similar circumstances. I certainly agree with Freeonereturns in her answer.
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::hehehe!:: The 'saint' on my right shoulder gave up face-palming and shaking its head years ago, and eventually decided to try the cookies that the (ahem) 'sinner' was offering. Come to the Dark Side. We have cookies! I agree with others: no one has the right (yet do have the audacity ) to tell you why you should be on this site. It's none of their gorram business! YOU are the only one you have to answer to at the end of it all. When I have that "come to terms with myself" feeling over things that I've done while pursuing my happiness at the time, I just adopt a saying that Madonna said years ago: "Absolutely no regrets". "Be who you are and say what you feel. Those who matter won't mind, and those who mind won't matter." ~ Dr. Seuss.
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I didn't vote, because I think the middle ground is best. I took both sides and tweaked it a bit. Albeit a little more bad girl and guy thoughts, but you'll get the idea. LOL - Be careful! There’s a lot of cray crays out there. - Don't rush things. - Don't get discouraged after a hundred first dates on the traditional sites. - You are a prize to be won. - You’re smart, classy, intelligent. - Be pursued - Men enjoy the chase! - Be Valued and don’t be taken for granted. - Stick to your standards - you know what you want. - Go for it girl. You were with the same guy for 30 years. - Curious, hell yes! Have some fun. - Let your inhibition's go! - Fill that insatiable need you have! It’s all about your needs now! Explore! - You ARE sexy and hot! - You're not a Ho. You're selective, discreet. - You're not looking to jump into another long-term relationship. So why wait? - it’s time to shine and feel the passion within you!
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1/22/2019 5:49 pm |
" Youre smart, classy, intelligent. Dont degrade yourself. - Stick to your standards - you know what you want. it’s time to shine and feel the passion within you!" youknow and in the morning the only opinion that really counts is the person you see when you brush your teeth! go out there and discover who you are, the only bad thing you can really do is live your life in the perception you have of what other people you think will say about you... when in truth that will say what they say regardless of your actions there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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1/22/2019 7:50 pm |
Be yourself, do what feels right good or bad. Be safe. Have a great time.
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good girl at work. bad girl the rest of the time?
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There is room for both in your life. You have heard it before, repeat after me, “I can be classy on the street and a slut in the sheets”.
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