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Well, would you consider +4 years and in good cardiovascular nick?  You have a very engaging smile, I always think. Sorry about your husband, nothing prepares you for that kind of a loss,does it?
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I couldn't say it any better! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!
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Heart Attack * 3/4 shot Jack Daniel's * 1 shot Kahlua * 3/4 shot Vodka * 1 splash Cola (Coca-Cola) * Fill with Red Bull ^^^ hold on a second... skip the recipe... I've seen your smile Have a great day ! ~Wee~ 𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦
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Even as a teenager I have always had an attraction to older women and I think most men do. Older women just know what they like and are not afraid to ask for it. I truly appreciate that kind of straight-forward communication.
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6/25/2020 6:58 am |
I agree100% of your synopsis.
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6/25/2020 7:01 am |
Yep, age and size seems to be a problem until u ask what color they like so u will know to bring the Ferrari that matches dress......... 
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6/25/2020 8:04 am |
Agreed. To each their own
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Everyone has different tastes in life as you well know & your rational makes perfect sense for why you prefer younger men. For a start you look nothing like your age so in many ways I think that goes with your choice. Second I am sorry for your loss, that must have been a really tough burden to recover from. Shared experiences in life are very important to us all yet should not alone define what it is you really want & need from a serious relationship. Hope you do find somebody worthy of your time & passion.
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I couldn't have said it better. I personally want to have some connection of life history experiences with someone I am in a relationship with. I can see that if someone just wants fun then the age isn't so important to them. You wrote: I know a lot of men think it's a woman's libido that's in jeopardy after menopause and what causes her disinterest; I guess it's also the rationale men use to convince themselves it's okay to cheat. But I think there's also a fair-to-strong chance that some women are just turned off by their husbands after a certain age and many years together. Just my opinion of course, but have you SEEN some of the pics of (older) married men on this site? O.M.G. ...talk about letting onesself go! Love, devotion and time investment aside, sometimes you just have to say NO WAY. I agree totally on this too!! I work in the medical field and I have not seen nor heard of a plethora of women that suddenly don't want sex any longer once they reach menopause. I do think it is more of an excuse that is easily used for many a guy as to why they are not getting more sex at home. I have heard from both genders that after a bit the romance stuff is gone and it gets to be routine. Anything routine is not going to be fun. So to buy her flowers or have a spa day for her and get her a nice gift just because may not be in his opinion needed as they are not dating. For the women I have seen and heard that they no longer are putting on a little bit of makeup or wearing something sexy like they used to as they also think that they are married so why do it. Weight issues go for both genders also. If the person you are with is no longer doing exciting things than either one of the partners can and do lose interest. Good communication and always treating your partner special helps LOTS. Because you are married don't think you don't have to spoil or pamper a partner.
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It is your life, live it your way.. I see nothing wrong with your experienced reasoning. And thanks for the lovely face pictures the other day, they are stunning.. Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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lmao .. i like that
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I completely agree. Well said!
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I understand where you are coming from. and I consider that choice totally to be yours. It does not mean that some of us will not try to make our arguments to try and change your mind.I have a friend that just remarried after his wife died and he is marrying a woman of about the same age who had lost her husband. They must have had good experience with marriage and therefore chose to try it again. Some people will never act their age so even with many years of life's lessons they may still not react like you would expect. Good Luck and Enjoy your summer
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