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Am I wrong to be annoyed ?
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Am I wrong to be annoyed ? I have only been on here a week and I am getting pissed off about the amount of people on here who are just so gullible.(mostly guys) My profile says I am not interested in married men, couples or anyone over 34. I asked not to be contacted by them. Yet I am inundated by IM's and messages saying they contacted me because I viewed their profile. How the fuck can I view their profile when I don't have a gold membership ? For me to view the I would need to pay £1.95. Now this is where the gullible part comes in. Why would a 26 yr old who's says not interested in married men, couples or over 34's pay to view them ? it's simple I DIDN'T. This site sends out notifications saying you were viewed, hotlisted and flirted with. I have looked at times to these lists I have received and noticed quite a few from standard members, so I have come to the conclusion these must be fabricated to make you appear more popular so you stay on the site or in gold members cases PAY to stay on the site. You don't have to be a genius to work out this site is out to make money. So what is the best way to do that ? It's to make members think they are getting what they want. I have even posted it on my status and yet still getting messages from in particular older guys who disregard my wishes. I am hoping that I get some feedback from bloggers about this. Come check out my blog |
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I would like to hear your views on this please Come check out my blog
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Hey McJuggsy, welcome to the blogs. Unfortunately, when your cursor hovers even momentarily over a profile pic or silhouette it counts as a view. An annoying feature introduced by the site to make it look like you're generating interest. So your unwanted attention may derive from that, some of it at least. Hope that helps, take care out there mind, there arw some bamsticks!! 
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Sorry to say, in some ways that's the way this site works. Ghost views everything you mentioned. For myself, all I had to do was glance at your profile, and noticed your preferences, that was enough for me not to be bothering you. But I will follow your blog, you post some very HOT photos on it.
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Aye Ms.Juggsy, always good to catch another jockess in our little bloggies.... The boy lindo's right... Your pretty little profile pic keeps popping up saying you been peeking under my kilt.... Its just the way the site keeps the traffic moving and keeping us (mostly-male) perv's interested.... Hope you get used to it coz we need more bloggers from gods own country  (especially from the lassy's point of view.....)Give it a chance (but keep the delete button handy).... An don't go with strangers Mxxx
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I agree with the above posters.
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What are your preferences for advice giving. I am married and over 55. Please advise. People are strange when you're a stranger."
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And the problem is? Just delete the mails from men who don't interest you... unfortunately it's something that comes with being a young woman on a sex site. By the way, if you go by the "rule" of men ask, women choose, then just as you expect to be free to choose who you want there will be some men who feel free to ask whoever they want - regardless of what the profile says. "She said nobody over 34, and I'm 64, but when she sees my cock she won't be able to resist" 
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Hi..... And that is because this is A.F.F. and a majority of A.F.F members are from the bottom 1% of the gene pool, meaning they can't read or just don't give a fuck. Thanks for sharing your blog
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Simply ignore what does not interest you and focus your attention on that which does. Be safe, relax and just have fun!
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Put your settings to view in private. It cuts back on the phantom views. Then, ignore the ones out of your range. We all get it. Don't let it get to you.
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First of all, as a fellow standard, I feel your pain Juggsy. As Springsteen might say, "stay loose as a goose, doing The E Street Shuffle.' People are strange when you're a stranger."
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That's right. And the mini profile does not list your preferences. These will only be visible in your full profile ... which standard members usually cannot see! So they do not know whether they are in a demographic you are not interested in and do not want to be contacted by. In most cases these people simply don't know that their contact attempt is unwanted. Don't be too harsh on them, please. I wish you good luck on this site ...
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Some great comments here! I'm still getting contacted by guys with dick pics (what is it about guys and dick pics?) who obviously hadn't read my profile as that's literally the last thing I'm interested in. No, seeing yours won't change my mind 
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Ya all the comments here are correct ma'am a little hover accidentally click a bam you have that view and from there you have those im's/emails inc so best bet is deleting or forgetting about it, as for all those "dick pics" no ideas why they do it *shrugs* all of not most ladies don't like it unless they ask to see it in my opinion but hey whatever floats your their boat 😂 it is not the gentle shower,but thunder.We need the storm,the whirlwind,and the earthquake
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since standard can read your blogs, than post what you want and don't want in your blogs, maybe they will understand, I tried being nice by replying thanks but no thanks, some get it and others think they can change your mind,
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This issue does tend to cause a lot of friction. I hope you stick with it.
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Save yourself the aggravation and just ignore people that don't pay attention. It won't stop them so you are wasting your time. AdultFriendFinder continues to apply features that are frustrating or poorly designed. Like my dick pic?
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Yep ... go check "People I viewed" and you'll see a number of people you never even came close to seeing them ever ... LoL
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3/22/2018 12:57 pm |
I feel your pain. I run into the same thing. I am hetero flexible, which means I'm a mostly strait guy who likes to give head, and maybe a bit more some day. I have soo many people that want to meet, but never read my profile. I do look at profiles that come up as matches in my searches. I can only see the first few lines, but sometimes it's enough to hold my interest. What I hate the most are the emails I get from the gold members who have full access to read my profile, and they still want things I clearly state that I'm NOT into.
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